Aussiegirl123 Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 Hi everyone, I have had a very strange situation for about 18 months now. I am very interested in a man and think he is interested in me. I know he came out of a bad marriage and has scars from that. Anyway, he stares at me all the time, I mean all the time,so many people have commented on his behaviour, he also seems scared to talk to me alone. My 10yr old son has noticed the way he watches me. This has gone on for way too long, i thought after 18months if it was some crush he might get over it, but nothing ever changes. I just don't know what to make of it,why he seems so terrified of me but almost obessively stares at me all the time, very strange. Can anyone give me some advice. Thank you
slubberdegullion Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 Has he ever approached you at all? Have you ever actually spoken to this fellow? It sounds a bit creepy.
Author Aussiegirl123 Posted January 24, 2006 Author Posted January 24, 2006 Hi, yes i have spoken to him alot, my son is in a choir and he is a musical director and i am a mananger. We have even had many arguments about various things. He just stares at me constantly though. For instance, i was at a night club with a few friends and he was there, he had just done a gig. He didn't once come up to say hello, i thought away from choir he might actually do something. For the whole 2 hours we were there, he watched me like a hawk, didn't matter where i was, he watched me. My friends couldn't beleive it, in fact they said he was so in love with me he couldn't see straight. That was what they observed anyway. It's bizarre behaviour and i don't know whether to try and confron the situation because as i have said, it never ends. Help! Thanks also
Milo Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 Well, since you are interested in him too, would you care to be the first one to broach the subject of a date for coffee or something along those lines?
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