PlentyLV007 Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 Hello all! Okay so I met this guy on Saturday at a social gathering in Hollywood. I eyed him out for a while...then I approached him and asked him if I could buy him a drink. He looked at me in shock! Like if I was standing in front of him naked! He smiled and said..."you want to buy me a drink". Wow...sure.... We went to the bar and talked and what not...we danced and had a good time. He asked me for my number...so I didn't think nothing of it..."good times" right!? Next night...he calls me....That shocked me.... Today I text messaged him I got his message and hope he had a great weekend...He said "text him later to see what's up" Is this too fast....?! I mean... this is a first for me....I usually hear from a guy like a couple of days...not the next day.... Should I take a step back? Guys...Peeps...help!
bluechocolate Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 Should I take a step back? A step back from what? You haven't even got out with him yet. I don't think it's significant that he didn't follow some rule about waiting 48 or 72 hours to call. p.s. have you seen the movie Swingers?
Author PlentyLV007 Posted January 24, 2006 Author Posted January 24, 2006 p.s. have you seen the movie Swingers? Yes I own it...How funny! At least he didn't call back like a lot of times and leave me like 10 messages right? Hmmm....GREAT MOVIE!!!
tanbark813 Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 No need to take a step back. Go get your bone on. 1
bluechocolate Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 Yes I own it...How funny! At least he didn't call back like a lot of times and leave me like 10 messages right? Hmmm....GREAT MOVIE!!! As soon as I read, this is a first for me....I usually hear from a guy like a couple of days... I thought of that part where they were discussing how much time to wait before calling a girl after you get her number. That movie was so money!
barfool Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 No need to worry! If a guy shows interest it is not something to be afraid of. I would be much more nervous of someone who plays the game of waiting X number of days before contact. 1
grace2005 Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 I personally would be turned off 100% if a woman offered to buy me a drink. It's just akward. I would lose interest quickly. As to the phone calls. I think a guy should wait 3 days to call after getting a girl's number. Wait 3 days the first time, then 6 days the 2nd time, & 8 days the 3rd time. If she never initiates a call after that then go into strict no contact mode and move on because she's not interested. She may be playing hard to get in the first 3 times but after the 3rd time she would initiate a call if she's interested. 1
Gold Pile Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 How come I never meet women like you!? The fact that you bought him a drink, has boosted is confidence 1000%. He thinks you're a sure thing and will be fast and eager in his contacts with you. Use caution, I've heard stories about this guy...he got an STD from one of the doublemint twins.
Freckles1001 Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 I personally would be turned off 100% if a woman offered to buy me a drink. It's just akward. I would lose interest quickly. As to the phone calls. I think a guy should wait 3 days to call after getting a girl's number. Wait 3 days the first time, then 6 days the 2nd time, & 8 days the 3rd time. If she never initiates a call after that then go into strict no contact mode and move on because she's not interested. She may be playing hard to get in the first 3 times but after the 3rd time she would initiate a call if she's interested. To me, this seems like a very closed-minded way to approach dating. Way too many rules. Most women I know won't play those games...and aren't attracted to men who do. Just my 10 cents.
Milo Posted January 25, 2006 Posted January 25, 2006 I personally would be turned off 100% if a woman offered to buy me a drink. It's just akward. I would lose interest quickly. Really? I guess you don't feel comfortable about role-reversals then. I love it when women buy me drinks. In fact, I love it when women do the driving, too.
Author PlentyLV007 Posted January 25, 2006 Author Posted January 25, 2006 Okay loved all your responses! Funny as hell! Oh MILO...on the whole I also love women to drive too....I "use to" always end up driving but, I'm over it now. I mean I feel that if I drive to my date's house, then he can drive to the destination...or I like to do the whole Paper Rocks-Scissors...that's a fun way to figure out who's driving too! =) To keep you updated....I called him back and we talked for a good hour...we have a lot of the same interest such as basketball and I'm a big Gamer as far as Gamecube and Playstation... Before we ended our converstaion he said that we should get toghether soon and that if I wasn't too busy the next day to call him. That was about a day ago...I do work a lot and he knows that...now do I have the ball in my court or should I wait for him to call me to ask me out? I'm usually aggressive and would ask him out, but I'm trying a different approach (bought him a drink for starters) to see what comes of it.
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