Brittanyjean06 Posted January 23, 2006 Posted January 23, 2006 I have been threading alot- sorry for that but im going to get this out.... I saw my ex today in the car-- and i panicked because i guess he is back from elizibeth city...I don't want him here, because he lives so close to me ...i will see him in his car alot but it just sucks big time....it brings back all that hope . I syke myself out by thinking" oh he was the one who called me from a private number and hung up"... i have all this hope inside that i dont want to be there i meen i really can't help it at all?? now that hes back in cary,( i dont know how long he will be staying)... I have it on my mind like crazy- i meen it was always on my mind....but seeing him eh
blackendangel13 Posted January 23, 2006 Posted January 23, 2006 I so know how you feel! I haven't spoken to my ex in 4 months. I have avoided places where I know he will go and people he talks to. For my girlfriend's birthday she wanted to go to the bar that his brother works at! I agreed but then saw his best friend show up and I ran like hell. Where the friend is, he is not far behind. Seeing ex's sucks! Hang in there. Maybe you need a vacation
Just Visiting Posted January 23, 2006 Posted January 23, 2006 I know how both of you feel. Even though I am doing good, just the thought of seeing him brings me into a complete panic. I am still not ready to see him in person, and yet we lived together for almost a year. The break up was in mid-September and we haven't had a voice-to-voice conversation since the night before I left. It gets tough at times.
Yamaha Posted January 23, 2006 Posted January 23, 2006 I saw my ex in the car and I thought she was going to have a wreak. (LOL)
Author Brittanyjean06 Posted January 23, 2006 Author Posted January 23, 2006 haha yeah it really does suck- it brings back all those feelings- and the funny thing is my friend just almost got in a car accident with him!!!! omg thats crazyyyyyyyy ahhhhhhh
brooke7777 Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 I'm sure that totally threw you for a loop! Make sure that you seem super confident and super happy with your life in the instance that you have a run in. Don't let him know that you are still hurting. Make him think you are on top of the world. I'm sure he's still thinking about you since you were together for so long so it will probably affect him to know that you are seemingly doing so well.
pippen_2k Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 Your so money Brittney, dont worry about this dude.
Chocolatellama Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 Haha.. I haven't seen my ex yet but when i do i'll probably just burst into tears or something.. i saw his sister today and i had to run away and hide.
fallenheart45 Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 Brit, Did he see you? if he did, did you guys wave?
blackendangel13 Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 If my ex waved to me I'd flip him off
notmakingsense Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 I saw my ex pulling up in her car to an intersection I was waiting at. I was on the cross street. I immediately pretended to get a cell phone call, looked in the other direction, as I smiled, fake-talked and laughed into the phone. Unless she saw my initial sideways glance, I'm hoping that she thinks I didn't even see her. Is that lame or what?
Author Brittanyjean06 Posted January 24, 2006 Author Posted January 24, 2006 well i saw him 4 months ago, in the car and i waved and looked all happy..i took him off guard..and he smiled than said ' DAMNIT"...i duno but no he did not see me this time, but the thing is if i do have a run in with him...i wont be able to be my self-...just because he knows that it affected me deeply when he got with someone else... ha but there back, and i bet you amillion bucks she thinks of me as a threat, shes just there to get over me, and move on with...its pathetic...it aint over till its over...she used to work at the place that i work at...i hope she doesn't get her job back ill have to quit....
Delicaterose00 Posted January 25, 2006 Posted January 25, 2006 Oh my gosh Brit..I am so sorry!!!!!!!!!!!! I fortunatley have never had a run in with an ex, while I still cared.... I couldnt imagine seeing Mike right now. I think it would break all the peices of my heart Ive been putting together... I am sorry.. just try to avoid him.. avoid him till your better. And you know what Brit... you dont want someoen that does not want you.. and if he still does not love you, which Im sure he prolly dont, then he isnt going to see you one day soon and say.. oh hey,.. wow, I think i do love you? No, not ganna happen.... And Brit, until you deal with the fact that its over over... your not going to get better honey... your healing process will take much longer.. you need to accept its over and not ganna happen again.... he is with someone else.. he is telling her he loves her, he wants to move in with her.. its done honey.. Im not trying to sound mean, Im trying to get through all that love you still have inside so this gets to your brain... For me... I didnt have trouble accepting it, but I had a hard hard time dealing with it... everytime I said.. its really over.. I was like.. this is a dream.. no way.. but I new it was..... going on 9 months soon... longest ever been without a boyfreind since I was 15... lmao.. Im 24 now... But this is my time to shine like I said...Im heere for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Author Brittanyjean06 Posted January 25, 2006 Author Posted January 25, 2006 hahah thank you, your advice is great...and i meen its sad because even with all this happening...im still like oh no he could love me.....thing is i feel werid..i meen my heart is broken i cant really deny that?? YES hes an a**h***, Yes he did some pretty mean things to me...but i dont feel right im still healing, and at the end of this semester it would have been like 10 months...and i still think ill feel the same way, i hate it grrr
Author Brittanyjean06 Posted January 25, 2006 Author Posted January 25, 2006 and with them being here, believe me i will have a run in with them...and that will be horrible not because there together....but because he could care less about my feelings and would know that id be like ah god its so hard.
fallenheart45 Posted January 25, 2006 Posted January 25, 2006 tisk tisk...brit...tisk tisk... Let me ask you...if a HOT ACE guy came up to you and wanted to get to know you..would you turn him down just because your still obsessed with your ex?
Author Brittanyjean06 Posted January 25, 2006 Author Posted January 25, 2006 no i woulden't but id be afraid of that rebound, and hurting him...but i would defiently go on a date- what if i did find someone who i could be compatable with..i wouldent let the rebound feelings kicked in...but you never know
Chocolatellama Posted January 26, 2006 Posted January 26, 2006 One of my friends found a boyfriend like 3 days after breaking up with her ex boyfriend.. everyone said that he was just a rebound guy and they've been together for over a year now... so you never know
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