jen_jen_heartbroken Posted January 23, 2006 Posted January 23, 2006 Just want to be able to stop sobbing. Want it all to end. Wish I was old and could die in my sleep.
Author jen_jen_heartbroken Posted January 23, 2006 Author Posted January 23, 2006 The world is so f***ing cruel. I can't take it anymore. Love is a joke. A big fat lie.
Author jen_jen_heartbroken Posted January 23, 2006 Author Posted January 23, 2006 And I hate Valentine's Day. Always dumped before the most romantic day of the year. Kill me now.
Author jen_jen_heartbroken Posted January 23, 2006 Author Posted January 23, 2006 Thank you for the hugs. I feel about as depressed as the cat (not my actual cat, but i wish it was) looks.
Lishy Posted January 23, 2006 Posted January 23, 2006 Hey Jen ...... Dont ever wish to die (even in jest) for a stupid man! If he dumped you then MORE FOOL HIM! He is the loser honey, not you! Get youself out there with the girls and let your hair down!! Easier said than done I know but time will help you!
Author jen_jen_heartbroken Posted January 23, 2006 Author Posted January 23, 2006 Yeah, I know all about the time thing. It works until the next crushing blow. In the meantime, I just feel like hunkering down in bed for about the next three months where nobody can hurt me.
lilmoma1973 Posted January 23, 2006 Posted January 23, 2006 You are better than that Jen don't let no man bring you down and make you want to hurt yourself!! He isn't worth that and it is his loss so don't do nothing drastic.. I feel for you and can tell you it will get better !! Hugs to you and if you need someone to talk pm me and ill give you my email
Lishy Posted January 23, 2006 Posted January 23, 2006 That is fine if you have a big hunk to 'hunker' with Jen Get dolled up and out there babe - Dont let some lame man get you down! You are sexy and sassy so go out and strut your funky stuff!!!!!!
lilmoma1973 Posted January 23, 2006 Posted January 23, 2006 That is fine if you have a big hunk to 'hunker' with Jen Get dolled up and out there babe - Dont let some lame man get you down! You are sexy and sassy so go out and strut your funky stuff!!!!!! Exactly Lishy did it and you can too...
Lishy Posted January 23, 2006 Posted January 23, 2006 Yeah I was strutting like a peacock on Friday hahahahha
kitten chick Posted January 23, 2006 Posted January 23, 2006 Take the time that you need to heal but limit it. Don't make the mistake of falling into permanent depression. Those with depression get hit with a double dose that's difficult to pull out of with these types of losses. Talk to your doctor if after a reasonable number of weeks you're still this depressed. http://www.hbcprotocols.com/9types.html
Author jen_jen_heartbroken Posted January 23, 2006 Author Posted January 23, 2006 I tried that. Went out Saturday with my girlfriend to a swanky hotel bar, and there were tons of good looking men everywhere. Just my luck...they were all attending some "GLBT equality" fundraiser in the hotel ballroom, and were all gay.
Author jen_jen_heartbroken Posted January 23, 2006 Author Posted January 23, 2006 Take the time that you need to heal but limit it. Don't make the mistake of falling into permanent depression. Those with depression get hit with a double dose that's difficult to pull out of with these types of losses. Talk to your doctor if after a reasonable number of weeks you're still this depressed. http://www.hbcprotocols.com/9types.html I wish there was a magic pill the doc could give me so I could forget the last year and how much I lost, and how much I am in love with him. But all I have is Celexa, and that doesn't cure a broken heart.
lilmoma1973 Posted January 23, 2006 Posted January 23, 2006 I tried that. Went out Saturday with my girlfriend to a swanky hotel bar, and there were tons of good looking men everywhere. Just my luck...they were all attending some "GLBT equality" fundraiser in the hotel ballroom, and were all gay. Be patient and have fun no one is saying get into another relationship have fun with friends and party !! Why you wanting a man when you are trying to get over the hurt? You need closure first than move on.. Just live the single life for awhile and have lots of fun !! Oh to be single again and no attachments ..
kitten chick Posted January 23, 2006 Posted January 23, 2006 I wish there was a magic pill the doc could give me so I could forget the last year and how much I lost, and how much I am in love with him. But all I have is Celexa, and that doesn't cure a broken heart. Trust me, I know this all too well. That's why I added in the part about you still feeling so depressed after a reasonable amount of time. Eternal Sunshine would be great but so far they haven't figured out a way to make it happen in real life so all we have are our friends and doctors.
Author jen_jen_heartbroken Posted January 23, 2006 Author Posted January 23, 2006 I wasn't looking to find a guy that night. I was just hoping that at least one would hit on me so I wouldn't feel like an effing reject from the dating pool. BTW, thank you for all the words of encouragement Kitten Chick, Lilmoma and Lishy!
Lonestar Posted January 23, 2006 Posted January 23, 2006 Guys will pick up the vibe you're sending out, so if you're depressed, angry, or bitter, they won't be hitting on you. Force yourself to smile and eventually it will feel natural. Practice smiling to complete strangers every day either at work, on the street, the grocery store.
alphamale Posted January 23, 2006 Posted January 23, 2006 J_J_BH...make sure you hide all the sharps in your house. We don't want anything bad to happen. You'll be OK.
Author jen_jen_heartbroken Posted January 23, 2006 Author Posted January 23, 2006 Lucky for me (or maybe not), all I have is a dull butterknife.
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