Hollybsoaddictive Posted January 23, 2006 Posted January 23, 2006 We were together for almost a year and then we seperated.. (He Cheated on me with his ex-fiancee) then after a few months apart and a lot of tears (We kept in touch) We are now "back" together and I must say happier than ever... Its been 3 months and my parents to this day DO NOT KNOW.. As far as they can tell hes the dummy that cheated on me and broke their little girls heart and thats all that matters... So I guess my question is, How do I tell them that we are together? Without causing tension in a wonderful home life... I love this man and I love them too... With all the craziness in this world this shouldnt be weighing on me anymore... Hopefully I get some great advice.. Thanks in advance! Love,Holly
consumed Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 I don't know if it applies to this situation but I was always told to be open with people because they will respect me more in the end for it even if they don't like what I have to say. I've been faced will telling my parents about a number of things that I know they really didn't approve of but I'm sure they were happy I at least told them. You should just tell you're parents no matter how hard it might be or what they might think. Just tell them this is you're decision and you are the one who has to live with it. Ask for their advice a, but let them know this is what you want and it is what makes you happy. They may not like it, but at least they will know from you that being with this guy makes you happy. Just listen to any advice they have to give because although parents sometimes don’t think like us (most of the time actually lol), the advice they give comes from their experience.
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