kjo314 Posted January 22, 2006 Posted January 22, 2006 She gave me her screename and told me to look her up on facebook..... She is a grad student here at the same college I am at..... Does that mean anything... and.... what can I do to ask her out.
konfuzd Posted January 22, 2006 Posted January 22, 2006 I give out my e-mail if I meet someone that I kind of want to keep at arms length for a while, when I'm a bit sceptical about someone... if I'm really into him, I'll give my phone number, or make plans to get together again right away. I'd say just take things slow, don't push her into anything, use the AIM to really get to know her before asking her out, as it seems to me she's a bit unsure at this point, but it can also serve as a very non-threatening way to get to know someone. Good luck!
Art_Critic Posted January 22, 2006 Posted January 22, 2006 Take things slow.. but it does look good.. Facebook is all about friends like myspace.. Goodluck.. and start Im'ing her
Author kjo314 Posted January 22, 2006 Author Posted January 22, 2006 what should I do... and when should I ask her out for maybe lunch or something...
konfuzd Posted January 22, 2006 Posted January 22, 2006 Don't have it all planned out. Girls don't generally like that. I, personally prefer something that's more spur of the moment. Just start with friendly conversation, "how was your weekend?" type stuff... let the conversation dictate when you ask her out.... Bring up movies, favorite restaurants and stuff, and just sneak into the conversation somewhere, "hey, maybe we should check out that movie/restaurant sometime". It takes the pressure and awkwardness out of things, but don't set a specific time or date right away, let her know you want to see her again, but don't put yourself out there to be super needy. I will repeat from my last post, giving an AIM screen name rather than a phone number usually means she wants to keep you at a distance for a while, and not looking to get together right away. Keep it lighthearted for now, judge her reactions before attempting anything.
Author kjo314 Posted January 22, 2006 Author Posted January 22, 2006 how long should I wait till I ask her out.. WOulnd't it be badto do that the next time I contact her? I don't judge women too well
TheSwordfish Posted January 23, 2006 Posted January 23, 2006 Well asking AIM or MSN isn't teh way to do it (see my thread asking for help beceause its annoying) a phonenumber is better. The problem is, you both have to be on AIM at the same time, have time at the same moment. My usual tactic with woman is, asking quastions and talking quite a bit, and only when you are quite sure about my case I ask someone out (usually she will hint at something like me coming over to watch a movie or go out, and then I just say a time and place ). Take you're time, don't rush it but don't play games (see my thread about annoying MSN stuff ) Have fun . Oh by the way, I found it refreshing to stop taking things to seriously and just let things come over me. Have fun in the process, don't worry to much about what might happen. I even enjoy things that aren't going my way lately
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