Wing Posted January 21, 2006 Posted January 21, 2006 I met this guy two month ago. and we are bf and gf from a week ago. This is my first relationship.(he said its his first relationship too, dont know if it is true.) everything is new to me.heard a lot sad storied, met liars before just made me lack of confidence on myself and him. we both university students. First he asked to be his gf for twice, and both time I said it was to soon, and third time he asked why not been single seems such a big issue to me. and i told him, It is never a big issue. i just wanted to get to know each other better and make clear decision, and i told him i would not want to sleep with anyone till i fully committed to that person, which maybe marriage or engagement. (I knew when I say that i have the risk to loss him but i told him) and he was actually happy about it, and he said thats how it should be, he was glad that is how I think. so then we bf and gf. and this my first relationship, so all new to me, so im here to see i can get any advice from someone who are experienced. when bf and gf go out, should they pay their bills seperately or most time the guy pay it.(when we went out we pay our own bill, he only paid my coffee for the first date). I feel like to get him some little present, but so far i havent get anything from him yet, and i dont really want to be the first, also afriad give him a impression i am moving too fast. (?) been twice, we planed to go out and he canceled it becasue his dad was sick, he needed to stay at home. many time i saw him online and went online and he immediate went offline ( i mean on msn). when we go out he alwasy have to go out no late then 5 or 6pm, which is bit strange to me. sometimes i just have a feeling he is not really serious with me. but just a feeling. maybe because i think too much.(?) I just want to know here, how could i tell if a guy is serious about a relationship.? thanks for help:-)
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