Ash03 Posted January 21, 2006 Posted January 21, 2006 Ok, so I gave this guy my number and he called me, we talked and sent text messages to each other for a few days, I went to his house one night and almost had sex with him but I didn't although I did give him a blow job. The very next day he told me that he was going through a lot right now and he feels like I'm being overwhelming and to ease up a bit.... well now he doesn't ever answer my calls or my messages but when I see him at work he always hugs me and asks how I've been doing? I'm not sure if he likes me or not.. At first it seemed like he did now I just don't know.
whichwayisup Posted January 21, 2006 Posted January 21, 2006 Sorry to say this, but it seems he was only after one thing...And he got what he wanted and now has moved on. If you're looking for a relationship with this guy it isn't going to happen. He's given you the typical blow off. I would back off and completely leave him alone. I'm sure it hurts because you two did have sex and now he's not being too friendly to you unless he feels like it. That isn't boyfriend material!
Author Ash03 Posted January 21, 2006 Author Posted January 21, 2006 But I didn't have sex I just gave him a blow job and That was all my fault he never pushed me into it.
slubberdegullion Posted January 21, 2006 Posted January 21, 2006 But I didn't have sex I just gave him a blow job and That was all my fault he never pushed me into it. A blow job is sex. Ask Bill Clinton. Did he put a gun to your head? Threaten you with violence? Physically manhandle you so you had no choice? If so, he should be charged with sexual assault.
whichwayisup Posted January 21, 2006 Posted January 21, 2006 Maybe it was too soon? I don't know. But if you're really liking him, then be upfront and honest. Ask him outright if what you did is affecting what is going on now. You've got nothing to lose and this way atleast you'll know what he thinks.
Author Ash03 Posted January 21, 2006 Author Posted January 21, 2006 He said he still wants to talk to me and maybe hang out.. but every time i mention it he's busy with something else.. I honestly don't think it's because of me giving him a blow job....
whichwayisup Posted January 21, 2006 Posted January 21, 2006 Well then wait for him to make the arrangements and call you. Back off abit and let him chase you for a little while. If he is interested, he'll make the effort. In the meantime, go hang out with girl friends and have some fun!
BRISEIS Posted January 21, 2006 Posted January 21, 2006 Look here, obviously he just isnt into you. You gave him blow that fast? Wow, but anyway If I were you, I would just forget him and move on with my life because obviously he isnt making time for you because he is soooo BUSY and you overwhelm him, so F*** him and move on. He isnt worth it and next time dont be so quick to give pleasure like that. ITS ALL A GAME, JUST DON'T GET PLAYED!
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