otherlover Posted January 21, 2006 Posted January 21, 2006 Ok well you should all be happy that i have decided to kind of slowly end things with my mm. I had one really bad evening where i decided that i couldnt take the stress and heartbreak anymore. Everytime i try to end things with him and this being unknown by him, he ends up sweeping me off my feet yet again. i told him that i dont expect or want him to leave his wife for me. I have no intention of making him choose. The other day he told me that no matter what i decide to do he will always care about me and we will always remain close. He said that i deserve an entree rather than just a salad. (if that makes sense to any of you) You want to know the worst part....when i see him with this wife and the thought of him going home to her kills me even when i know its what he is suppossed to do. When i think of them having sex i get insanley jealous. Its really heartbreaking.ok so besides getting out of it...how else can i deal wtih this jealousy that i will always have until i meet someone else
Mistaken Identity Posted January 22, 2006 Posted January 22, 2006 Congratulations for deciding to take back your life. The only advice I can give is to just stay away from him. When you think of him, try to stop your thoughts. Think of something else. Or dwell on something bad about him instead of good things. Think about the fact that he is not leaving his wife. Read articles about OW to get perspective. When you get sad, try to get mad instead. Work on your self-esteem. Get busy.
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