lilmoma1973 Posted January 21, 2006 Posted January 21, 2006 I STILL think Lishy should get a life-sized photo of her in a nude, seductive pose, and put it up on her balcony, with a big sign that says YOU CAN'T HAVE ANY! Then, after a few days and Mr Drive-By has got the message, she'll have to send me the sign. :) roflmao!! :lmao: Slubber im sure you would like her to send you the sign .. :D
Author Lishy Posted January 21, 2006 Author Posted January 21, 2006 roflmao!! :lmao: Slubber im sure you would like her to send you the sign .. :D I will send the sign but take the words off hahhahahha
Lonestar Posted January 21, 2006 Posted January 21, 2006 Lil I feel that last night has sort of got me over him! Is that crazy? I had no power before but now I can hold my head up and KNOW that that man wants me! His issues are HIS and he can deal with them whilst I get on with my life! Yay Yay Yay :D :bunny: Careful, Lishy. Feeling the power can be dangerous. If you don't get any more attention from him, the feeling will start to go away and then you'll want it back. So you'll run into him again and start the cycle all over again. That can be draining. I know you want the guy (under your terms) but the best way to do that is to stop focusing any energy on him.
Author Lishy Posted January 21, 2006 Author Posted January 21, 2006 Hi Lonestar ...... Good god I hope that does not happen to me! I am hoping that this is the end of it now to be honest. I know he wont call and that is sad but hey ho
noclobber Posted January 21, 2006 Posted January 21, 2006 hey baby, so you got your revenge? should be interesting to see what he does next.. may be drive by again? but i just wanted to let you know that you don't want to go to his club once again. that will look like you are deliberately trying to make him jealous... and things may back-fire.. that said, keep it up honey! xoxoxo 1
Author Lishy Posted January 21, 2006 Author Posted January 21, 2006 Clobsy he has worked at that club the whole time I was seeing him and i have been in there no more then 3 times in 8 months. I did not go in there to make him jealous babe, and I was not expecting that to happen!
alphamale Posted January 22, 2006 Posted January 22, 2006 I am hoping that this is the end of it now to be honest. I know he wont call and that is sad but hey ho when it comes to getting men i think that many women have HUGE egos. if a woman is really interested in a particular man and he does not respond many women cannot handle it. it crushes them emotionally and mentally. they think, "hey i can get all these 100s of men (who i'm not interested in BTW) but when theres one guy i really like, he does n't give me the time of day"
whichwayisup Posted January 22, 2006 Posted January 22, 2006 Men are the same way but handle it differently alpha. Noone likes to be rejected and made to be felt like a fool. I also think "it crushes them emotionally and mentally" is abit too much of a statement, UNLESS she's already VERY emotionally attached to him, I can't see someone bawling their eyes out or feeling messed up cuz a man didn't respond the way she would have liked him to.
Author Lishy Posted January 22, 2006 Author Posted January 22, 2006 I am not 'crushed' as such, but it may be a bit of an ego thing! What I really do not understand is that judging the way he was on Friday, and let me tell you there is NO mistake on how much he fancies me, there where tons of really hot girls in there and he did not take his eyes off of me, SO why doesnt he call? That is what is cinfusing to be honest!
Art_Critic Posted January 22, 2006 Posted January 22, 2006 I am not 'crushed' as such, but it may be a bit of an ego thing! What I really do not understand is that judging the way he was on Friday, and let me tell you there is NO mistake on how much he fancies me, there where tons of really hot girls in there and he did not take his eyes off of me, SO why doesnt he call? That is what is cinfusing to be honest! Until you ignore him and forget about the nutcase you will not move on.. What is important is that he isn't relationship material.. Anybody that communicates on his level isn't worth being with.. Think about how he would react if you guys needed to talk to one another.. Let Him Go Lishy
Author Lishy Posted January 22, 2006 Author Posted January 22, 2006 AC I know all of this honey, and the advise you give me is what I would say if I read this by another poster! Knowing what to do and having the ability to do it are 2 different things! If I could take a pill to make me forget him I would babe. I really do not know what it is about this guy that drives me wild! No one has had this affect on me on 34 years! I must be driving you all mad with the same BS all the time AC ..... Seeing as your advise is always spot on could you try to answer my previous question .......... What I really do not understand is that judging the way he was on Friday, and let me tell you there is NO mistake on how much he fancies me, there where tons of really hot girls in there and he did not take his eyes off of me, SO why doesnt he call?
Art_Critic Posted January 22, 2006 Posted January 22, 2006 could you try to answer my previous question .......... I'm guessing here but I'll bet he just wants to f*** you and knows that isn't good enough for you.. so why put himself out there if he is going to get shot down. He doesn't want a relationship with you and knows you know that
Author Lishy Posted January 22, 2006 Author Posted January 22, 2006 I know you are right .... That hurts tho!
Art_Critic Posted January 22, 2006 Posted January 22, 2006 I know you are right .... That hurts tho! Your a babe ..and can have any guy.. go get one that can be a friend to you.. a lover to you and someone your child can look up to 1
Author Lishy Posted January 22, 2006 Author Posted January 22, 2006 Your a babe ..and can have any guy.. go get one that can be a friend to you.. a lover to you and someone your child can look up to Lol I wish I could have any guy! It is so hard for me to meet a guy I connect with. Plus I am petrified of meeting the 'wrong' guy. The thought of putting myself out there to get my heart broken petrifies me. If I can get myself into this kind of state over a guy I do not even love, imagine how bad it would be if I really loved a guy and he broke my heart? I have to be everything to my son and he needs a mum who is happy not broken hearted! And Slubsy you are such a sweetie pie, why dont you live in England eh? 1
noclobber Posted January 22, 2006 Posted January 22, 2006 go get one that can be a friend to you.. a lover to you and someone your child can look up to that wud be me! :love: :love: :love:
Gold Pile Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 You guys are just too sweet!!!!! GP too? SO why doesnt he call? In his mind, you squashed him like a bug when you visited his club. And you did this for no good reason...IN HIS MIND. You're better off w/out him.
riobikini Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 Lishy, Have you ever considered sitting down and talking with Mr. Drive-By, -have coffee, maybe? -and get to know more about him to see if you truly want him in your life? Good verbal communication might clear up whether or not he really has the other more sensible qualities you are looking for, (besides his being wickedly sexy) -or whether or not you have built up a rather large and misleading fantasy for yourself about who he really is and what qualities he may possess. How much do you know about him? -Rio
Author Lishy Posted January 24, 2006 Author Posted January 24, 2006 Yes Mr P I mean you too!!!! Rio - My emotions and feelings change by the day I swear! I have spent the last day GLAD that he doesnt call me, GLAD that I am not with him - In my heart I know he is not the guy for me. I need a man who is compassionate and understanding and I also need a guy I can rely on! A guy in touch with life and the problems of life! How could I rely on a guy who cant even answer a text? A guy who has no clue how it is to have children and run a house single handedly? He has no clue about any of these things! I have come to a conclusion (I think) He is a nice guy, but not nice enough to be with me! He lost out and he did me the biggest favour by not contacting me! I am lucky that he did not take advantage of me, the state I have been in at times he could have taken complete advantage! I dont want HIM, I dont want to be with HIM, I am just LONELY! So I base my feeling towards HIM as he is the last guy I connected with (Boy did we connect) Rio he was looking at me on Friday and I bet he was picturing some of the moves I pulled on him in bed - Hahahhaha GOOD, he was in bed with a WOMAN not a girl! So hopefully now I have the strength to lower my guards and allow another guy in! It will be hard but I will keep you updated! Rio what is happening with you? Tell us about your love life right now honey!
riobikini Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 Lishy, You have such a warm, generous heart that it would be a shame to see someone like Mr. Drive-By take advantage of you and break it in two. You simply deserve much better. As for me, I'm keeping very busy. This morning, I wanted to cry while driving to work, but the moment I started, I made myself think of how crappy it was for him to involve himself with me, knowing he had no plans to stick around from the very beginning, and how charmimg he was the whole time. I have learned that if I make myself a little angry about something I have a good chance at beating the tears. It doesn't always work, but it's always worth a shot. I don't really blame him for my feelings, nor do I truly believe all the things I think about him in anger, but it helps me to let it go more easily. There are moments that I actually feel sorry for him, -sadly, he doesn't seem to fully realize what it's like to not only love someone, -but to have them love you back. I'm gonna be fine. And so are you, Lishy. (Smile) -Rio "Mama said there'll be days like this, there'll be days like this, my mama said." -The Shirelles
Gold Pile Posted January 25, 2006 Posted January 25, 2006 Yes Mr P I mean you too!!!! aww shucks. :love: I'll send ya a GP doll soon. It's not anatomically correct (not enough vinyl in stock) so imagination is in order. Best light....you had some good sex, and you got to do the dumping.
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