miss.shaina Posted January 21, 2006 Posted January 21, 2006 Hey everybody, well, theres this guy and he's really starting to piss me off. hes just so confusing. I've known him for a while and i've actually spent time with him alone only once, and lets just say we went somewhere around third base. It wasnt really a date either. Anyways he didnt call me until a week after that and I definitely felt used. The first thing he said was 'you never called' then he went on about how and why he likes me so much. We planned on going out around 1 that day, but he never called, when i finally got a hold of him he said in got in a car accident but wasnt hurt. He asked if he could call me around midnight and I said yeah, but he never called again. This time we didnt talk to eachother for a little over a month. I thought about him the entire time. January came and since it was the new year, i decided to f*ck it and call him. He said he was happy i called and hes been waiting for me to call or some bs (i thought he said he was gonna call me). we planned on going to the movies, but something came up again. anyway, he did the same thing, talking about me and how much he likes me. grrr, and i hate how charming he is and how sincere he sounds. it feels like he knows me more than i do. he said that on that night we spent together i was putting up a front and he really wants to know me. He also said he felt like he was just a piece of *ss (ha) and that i was acting like "lets just get to the point" whatever. He says a lot of really sweet things, but its probably all a lie... He said that at first it was lust, but after that day i came over (not the same as that night) that that was when he really became attracted to me. He got cut off or something, i got 2 missed calls from him. Then i couldnt get a hold of him until two days later. When i did, we planned to hang out the next night, but he texted me the next morning asking if i want to go over for a little while too. He had to run to another county for a bit so he asked if i wanted him to call me when he came back. I told him to text me since i was in school. He never did, he didnt even call that night. It's been three days, Im sick of his sh*t, i dont get him. Why doesnt he ever call, and when we do talk he acts like he likes me so much. I dont want to call him, he should call me and i dont want to seem clingy or desperate. But if i dont im afraid we'll never talk again like last time, it lasted a whole month. What the hell, I'm getting the feeling im just some girl on the side or something. He does have a reputation for being sort of a manwhore. But I really have fallen for him...badly...damn. Sorry, I know it all sounds confusing and dumb, but any comments/advice would be really helpful. thanks
cygny Posted January 21, 2006 Posted January 21, 2006 not confusing at all. he likes you, but he likes other women too. he wants you to chase him, and he's keeping you on his string. sorry if that's not what you wanted to hear, but i'm guessing nothing you can do will make him chase you and be in a solid relationship. it's not about you. he is just being who he is.
Author miss.shaina Posted January 21, 2006 Author Posted January 21, 2006 so what am i suppose to do? just stop calling him and end it there? i doubt he'll call for a long time. it would be easier if he just told me whats going on instead of leaving me wondering forever
cygny Posted January 21, 2006 Posted January 21, 2006 if i were you (and I have been, in some way) i would move on immediately. he'll never be upfront with you, that's not his game. why would you want someone who's so indifferent to you anyway? find someone who's crazy about you. then he'll probably come running back after you. don't fall for it, know what i mean? it's a game.
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