Bill-RiZeR Posted January 20, 2006 Posted January 20, 2006 Here's the situation that happened today: While we were walking out to her car since she had to go do her stuff I playfully said that she has a crush on me but isn't admitting it. She's like she likes me as a friend and doesn't want to pursue in a relationship in general plus she doesn't hang out with much guys anyway, and she finds it cool being good friends with me. But here's the odd part, I said that I'm not ready for a relationship yet either but it seems like you have a crush on me, and that later on you're gonna end up liking me even more than ever. What she said was "We shall see..." The way she said it didn't look like "Pfft, yeah right." whatsoever. It looked like she never directly told me that she DOESN'T have a crush on me, and from the way she said things it seemed like she does like me. So does it look like I still have hope for her? After all, we're going to see each other exclusively, and she hasn't negated me for having dates with her. Much help is appreciated!
Author Bill-RiZeR Posted January 21, 2006 Author Posted January 21, 2006 Yeesh, getting advice is harder than I thought -_-; I could really use some help here. Sorry for the double post.
whichwayisup Posted January 21, 2006 Posted January 21, 2006 She seems interested in friendship, nothing more. Maybe she was shy about being called on her possible crush, I don't know. Just go with the flow, enjoy her company as a friend...If anything is going to happen it will in time. My suggestion though is, stop teasing her about the crush cuz if she doesn't have one on you, she'll quickly shutdown and not want to hang around you much. I don't mean that harshly, but sometimes when people do that it gets annoying, even though you're teasing her.
gfto Posted January 22, 2006 Posted January 22, 2006 You mentioned that you've been going on dates with her.....are they real dates? Do you kiss her at the end of the date?
My_Other_I Posted January 22, 2006 Posted January 22, 2006 This is an AWESOME example of how people read into things the way they want things to be! She said she doesn't want a R You said you don't want a R What are you worried about now? Go with the flow!
Author Bill-RiZeR Posted January 22, 2006 Author Posted January 22, 2006 This is an AWESOME example of how people read into things the way they want things to be! She said she doesn't want a R You said you don't want a R What are you worried about now? Go with the flow! Yeah, we don't want a relationship...YET! Not until she gets her crap done UNLESS if I take interest in her carreer goal then I may have a chance. And as for the real date issue, yes, even she knows that we had "real" dates. Sure nothing romantic happens as of yet but people do say that time should be given and take it slowly, but not too slowly.
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