Wierd, just found ex's myspace profile, seems like he has gotten wierder....

[Tangerina]

Hmm... he always was wierd, that was part of the attraction I guess, but he has always made people really uncomfortable with his arrogance which comes from feeling misunderstood and like an outcast so he likes to think that he is way better than everyone else and that is the explanation.... this alienated a lot of my friends, no one was too fond of him, but we clicked alright... tho there were major problems too, but I won't go into that... but sheesh, I just found his myspace profile and it seems like he has really gone pretty deep into the whole arrogance/insecurity thing since we split.... or was he always like that and I was just in love and didn't notice what everyone else saw?

 

"About me:

Do you really care? Maybe You do, so here is something to test that... Im 20, which feels really old, living in seattle, which feels really dark. But it also feels really real. more so than any other city Ive ever been in. It seems like there are two types on here - the 'holla atcha boyyeee' wankers, and the 'dark soul twists dripping anguish' wankers. usually wank-ettes, actually. Im not always this offensive, I promise. I just dont want to be either of those. And hey, the first step toward chang is admitting you have a problem, right? All Photos Copyright T James......... Me... I am a 20 year-old dancer. Right now just ballet - maybe something new soon. I hope something new soon, because nice abs arent enough and ninety percent of the people I meet in ballet are either really shallow or completely unwilling to so much as give me the time of day. The second one is the most infuriating because it is the most insidious, indirect, passive-aggressive way of fundamentally devaluing a person that I know of. I know, I sound like a prick. I guess I am, but I am also a good person - I dont just walk around angry or resentful all the time, and Im honest. But people seem to think Im a spaztic ****-off, which I guess comes with the territory of being wierd, which I am by most peoples standards, but some days it gets a little old. Really ****ing old. Because wierd just means Im not like them - well **** being like them, thats called cloning, folks... go along to get along? its a good way to lose your soul in the long run. Wierd just means I dont fit in, am not normal. If that's what you call calling bull**** every time someone tells you "wash your hands every time you go pee," well ****, then call me crazy like a jay-bird because, as the old joke goes, in the marine corps they teach us not to piss on our hands, and I can gaurantee that any bathroom faucet is hell of a lot dirtier than my schlong. Everyone wants to be a friend, but no one wants to trust or love; no one wants to be an enemy, but everyone wants to kill and take. I would rather have one hundred enemies that attack me honestly, and to my face, than a single friend that would stab me wtherehile I slept. You there, declare thyself - Friend or Foe?"

 

JESUS CHRIST! I thought about friending him but then decided against it because I think it would be mean to make him see pics of me and my BF together... we are kinda getting to the stage where we are on good terms though, so that is cool, but when I talk to him he still likes to spend a lot of time talking about why he is better than everyone, which I just have no tolerence for anymore....

[littlekitty]

What's the interest with an ex if you are involved? Shouldn't you be just getting on with your own relationship and not worrying about him?

 

Perhaps the odd chat, but checking out his myspace seems like you might still be a bit hooked?

[JayKay]

You seem to be very curious about his whereabouts and activities. I agree, you probably need to move on.

 

 

Overall, he sounds very young and very insecure. He is just trying to find himself. I hope he does.

 

His post reeks of loneliness and anger. He has to come to terms with the fact that he is who he is and someday he may become more confident. I can't imagine anyone responding to that unless they are also riddled with angst.

[Tangerina]

HAHA, sorry if I came accross wierd... believe me, I HAVE moved on... we stay in contact though, not really as friends, I haven't seen him in 4 months, but y'know... like "hows it going?"... mostly because he needs to give me my money back and some of his stuff is still at my parent's house... actually, my BF thinks it is good that we talk or say hi sometimes since we both think it is nice to stay friends with exes if it can work... I am still not sure if I want to be friends, but it is kinda cool to just check in every now and then.... as for the myspace thing... didn't know why I shared that here but I came accross it on a mutual friend's profile and it just struck me that "geez, this guy has gone off the deep end!" I probably shouldn't have posted it on here, but it sure is a piece of work!!! Anyways, what is the big fuss people always make about talking to exes.... if I wasn't over him or was still attracted to him or still wanted to get back together then you are right, I should not talk to him... but I don't want any of those things and I've known him since I was 16 so I do care what is going on with him sometimes... I don't like take responsibility for his happiness or emotions in any way... just "hi, hows dance? oh, you aren't dead yet, thats good to hear.... read any good books lately? come get your stuff from my parent's house...." We broke up almost a year ago and I am with a sweet boy now..... HAHA, and I don't have a facination with checking his myspace, but who wouldn't read it if you came accross it? Hmmm... if you weren't over someone that could be painful or whatever, but I just had curiosity and after readong his profile my feeling was "Woah, I devoted 3 years of my life to this? Don't ever do that again...."

[littlekitty]

I guess we presumed you had intentionally gone and found his myspace profile, which would be a bit weird.

 

I'm friends with many ex's. But I don't purposely seek out information on what they are up to!!

 

Since you just kinda came accross it, I guess it's fair enough you looked!!

[Art_Critic]

His post reeks of loneliness and anger.

 

I agree with JayKAy.. Weird.. No.. A bit pyscho YES

 

He sounds like he is a mean nasty person with alot of self hate inside himself

[lilmoma1973]

 

He sounds a really big arse be glad you have move on and found someone and not still with him.. He sounds very arrogant from what you are telling me.. Good luck