bigbuffs Posted January 19, 2006 Posted January 19, 2006 My divorce trail is now only a month away. I was just wondering if anyone has ever asked the judge to mandate marital counseling. I was told by a freind that they have heard of this happening. Though it seems very unlikely that she will have a change of heart anytime soon, I feel like I should do everything in my power to keep my commitment to her.
dgiirl Posted January 19, 2006 Posted January 19, 2006 Personally, I've never heard of it. And I dont think it will have the positive affect you are looking for. In fact, I think it will push her further away. The only thing you can do is allow her to make her own decisions and focus on your own life. If it's meant to be, she'll come back, if not, you've focused on yourself and have moved on anyways. Either way, you'll win. If you truely truely love her, you'll respect her decision and let her go.
slubberdegullion Posted January 19, 2006 Posted January 19, 2006 It depends entirely on the jurisdiction. But, alas, I believe dgiirl (as usual) is right. Respect your lady's decision, honour your feelings of loss, and grow with the knowledge that you did what you could. Good luck. PS: If you can avoid trial - for instance, if it's just one or two issues that need resolving - by all means do it.
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