fooled Posted January 19, 2006 Posted January 19, 2006 Yup. I miss the lying, cheating, alcoholic, inconsiderate, disrespectful, self-absorbed smoker. Reading that - I'm ashamed. I clearly don't love myself. But at least I won't call her.
bluetuesday Posted January 19, 2006 Posted January 19, 2006 you do love yourself. that's why you won't call her. is this the beeyach who tried to shag all your friends? sigh. we all miss the space absent people leave. even the rotten psychopathic absent people. it'll pass. stay strong.
Chocolatellama Posted January 19, 2006 Posted January 19, 2006 A boyfriend i had a while ago cheated on me with my best friend, some other GUY and another girl.. He was completely drug ****ed and i didn't even know, he was having sex with pretty much everyone he saw.. and yet i still loved him.. I don't know why it was really insane, i even considered taking him back. You just have to remember that you're worth more than that and deserve to be treated better.. you're better off without her and will find someone that is worth your time. Haha.. i should be taking my own advice
meltwithme Posted January 19, 2006 Posted January 19, 2006 Yup. I miss the lying, cheating, alcoholic, inconsiderate, disrespectful, self-absorbed smoker. But at least I won't call her. I'm in the same boat, I want to be over her so bad but it seems like this attachment or whatever was so strong to her that I can't see her as anything but wonderfull when I know there's definatly better out there. I'm hangin in there man, we can do it, I know I can get over her but I don't know why it's taking SO DAMN LONG! I need to go workout.
AltplanB Posted January 19, 2006 Posted January 19, 2006 I find doing nothing but working out, eating, working out, and then going home, taking a shower, sleeping with another girl that you picture is your ex, and then waking up to go the gym works very well. This is for all the ADD people like me who can't stand doing something boring or they will start to think about ther ex. Trust me, if im eating and not reading at the same time, i will think about my ex and get sick, making me not hungry. Ive lost 20 pounds of muscle and i didn't have any fat to begin with. Just gotta keep your mind off it and when you can't take it anymore, come back to this site and read other peoples ****ed up problems...
Author fooled Posted January 19, 2006 Author Posted January 19, 2006 Alt, sleeping with a girl you imagine is your ex doesn't seem very healthy to me. A moment ago I realized WHY I want to see her or talk to her... Because I miss feeling loved. But she can't give that to me. So I have to love myself. Or this will happen to me again.
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