brokenheart87 Posted January 19, 2006 Posted January 19, 2006 I became friends with a guy 10yrs older then I am. We were always together. He would take me around his family he was always around my family. He was also going threw a divorce with a women he was with fo r8yrs. She had left him for his best friend. They had a bad relationship, they always cheated on each other. But anyways, about a month or so after we meet he ask me to be his girlfriend. And I said yes. After we made this commitment to one another all we did was argue about everything. I think it was cause we were always together and needed a little space. About 5 months after this we went our seperate ways and he started seeing some other girl and it didnt last but maybe a week or two with her but during their little fling or whatever you want to call it he would call me or text message me every once and a while but it was like we would still have a little bit of contact. Now that he is single he will stop by my house and see me and call me more then what has since we split. It bugs me not talking to him everyday. So I will text him and get mad if he dosent respond! What should I do?? Should I let him go or just wait and see what happens and hopefully just being a good friend will turn into the relationship that i want.... what do i do???
CaliGuy Posted January 19, 2006 Posted January 19, 2006 First get to the bottom of why you argued. Is that solved? Did he have issues he needed to solve? Did you have issues you needed to solve? If the problems that caused the breakup have never been resolved then there is no point trying to make this work. It will fail again. Sit down, talk to him if you can and see if you can meet on common ground. If not, go your separate ways. PS: Why can't I find a woman 10 years younger than me? haha.
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