Haven't heard from him after first date, should I let it go?

[flow28]

Been on a date recently, we went to a restaurant. He paid and opened the doors for me. He asked me before the date if I'd prefer a hug as a greeting, just a handshake, or no touch at all as he wanted me to feel comfortable. We went for quite a long walk afterwards. We hugged for hello and goodbye. After we parted he texted me saying to let him know when I'm home. I let him know. The next day I decided to text him. I said I had a good time and added a question about whether he logged me out of a job search website (he let me use his laptop to edit my resume as a small favour), as I forgot to log out. He reacted with a heart emoji to the 'good time' bit and said he logged me out. Since then we've been silent for like four days already. He's been active on social media. I wanna see him again but I don't know if he wants to. Should I just leave it? Some people advice me to message him again but I'm not convinced that's a good idea..

[Sony12]

Chances are he isn't interested but just in case contact him again and bring up getting together again and see how/if he replies. You'll have your answer then.

[Carlston]

He isn't interested in a second date. 

Keep it moving forward. 

Edited to add: You didn't ask if anyone has any ideas why he isn't interested but if you are looking for guesses, there's primarily one- and only one main reason why a person isn't interested in a first date and to most experienced dates it's no surprise. Well it is a surprise, that's the whole point. 

Edited Wednesday at 06:46 AM by Carlston

[stillafool]

18 hours ago, flow28 said:

He asked me before the date if I'd prefer a hug as a greeting, just a handshake, or no touch at all as he wanted me to feel comfortable.

What was your answer?

[flow28]

15 minutes ago, stillafool said:

What was your answer?

I agreed for hugs.

[IrishDU]

So, just to clarify.  You've told him that you had a good time, and all you got back was an emoji?
Maybe he's like me and has ASD??

Honestly, do whatever you feel comfortable with.

If it were me, I'd just send a text and ask him straight up "Do you want to see me again?"

[Gaeta]

If you don't want to be the pursuer then move on. If you text him he may say yes to a second date but you'll still find yourself in the role of the pursuer after that. The ocean is full of fish, find one that wants to date you and is able to express it.