flow28 Posted 16 hours ago Posted 16 hours ago Been on a date recently, we went to a restaurant. He paid and opened the doors for me. He asked me before the date if I'd prefer a hug as a greeting, just a handshake, or no touch at all as he wanted me to feel comfortable. We went for quite a long walk afterwards. We hugged for hello and goodbye. After we parted he texted me saying to let him know when I'm home. I let him know. The next day I decided to text him. I said I had a good time and added a question about whether he logged me out of a job search website (he let me use his laptop to edit my resume as a small favour), as I forgot to log out. He reacted with a heart emoji to the 'good time' bit and said he logged me out. Since then we've been silent for like four days already. He's been active on social media. I wanna see him again but I don't know if he wants to. Should I just leave it? Some people advice me to message him again but I'm not convinced that's a good idea.. Quote
Sony12 Posted 16 hours ago Posted 16 hours ago Chances are he isn't interested but just in case contact him again and bring up getting together again and see how/if he replies. You'll have your answer then. Quote
Carlston Posted 6 hours ago Posted 6 hours ago (edited) He isn't interested in a second date. Keep it moving forward. Edited to add: You didn't ask if anyone has any ideas why he isn't interested but if you are looking for guesses, there's primarily one- and only one main reason why a person isn't interested in a first date and to most experienced dates it's no surprise. Well it is a surprise, that's the whole point. Edited 6 hours ago by Carlston Quote
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