Insight needed

[Yorkiboy]

Not sure if this is in the right section but here goes.. 

Ive been with my girlfriend for 3 years, were both in our 40s, the relationship itself has been very good. 

A little back story, she left her violent, controlling ex 4 years ago and moved 3 hours away, a year later we met, then the controlling ex followed, they have kids together too,  apart from keeping our relationship from him, everything was good, she got a job, new friends, which she was never allowed, we was flowing really, we didnt get to see each other as much as we liked due to living an hour apart and working constant, that being said, not a day went by that we werent on the phone, literally every day. 

A year ago we had our 1st holiday abroad together, memories that will last a life time really,  fast forward to a month ago, we had our 2nd holiday abroad, yet another awesome time. 

Over the next 3 weeks after getting back, we have spoke on the phone daily, until 8 days ago, she rang me as per usual on the morning, the conversation was normal, and as she was going she said she will phone later, love you. 

Then i heard nothing from her for 6 days, i sent 3 texts in this time, stating i was worried etc, 2 days ago she replied saying she was mentally exhausted with work, has no time for anything or anyone and just wants to shut down, cant focus on texting or phone calls and that its hard to explain,.. This happened a while back and lasted 3 days, i replied to her just asking if she still wanted to be with me, probs wrong thing to ask, and mentioned our 3rd holiday that id booked, which we was both excited about,  shes not read the message in 2 days either and i know shes been online as ive seen her listening music, shes not removed me off anything either.  Also, there was no signs she was losing interest or anything. 

I just need advice on what to do as this is killing me, so many thoughts goin through my head, ive not tried contacting her since either, this silence, for this long isnt like her... Do i wait and give her space, i just dont know. 

Thankyou for any advice

Edited 7 hours ago by Yorkiboy
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