Finding Asian Women From Overseas While Here In The US?

[PassionatelyCurious]

I've always had a thing for Asian women for some reason. I love the culture, the fashion, so many things about them. Of course finding one here in the US is very difficult, and even when I do, they were usually born and raised here, and too "Americanized" for what I'd truly love to find. I can't move over there because of my kids. So, I'm trying to figure out a viable way to meet Asian women looking to come to the US, but NOT the ones looking to use you for an arrangement.

What I'm looking for probably doesn't exist, or if it does, I'd imagine the resource would be loaded with scammers. But, I'd love some type of dating site where you can meet Asian women that want to get to know someone in the US with the possibility of moving here and being together. 

I've looked around a bit, but the sites I've found so far all seem to either be "arrangements", where they're clearly just looking to use you, or trash sites filled with fake profiles. Does anyone know of any dating sites where there is at least a small chance of finding a woman on there that is genuine, and doesn't want to just use you to get to the US? Like maybe even a site that's designed to be able to chat with one another, and get to know people from overseas, where it's not strictly about dating might be a good idea. I don't know, I can't seem to find anything.

[introverted1]

So you want to meet women who don't mind being fetishized but who also want a "genuine" connection with a man on another continent?

Good luck.

[Imogen_77]

There are plenty of international dating sites and there are plenty of Asian women who would love to marry an American.

[basil67]

This reads like "yellow fever".   I say this Asian women come from many different countries, but you talk as if their culturess and attitudes are all the same.  

FWIW, I used to work with Japanese women.  They wanted to marry western men so that they wouldn't be expected to be Japanese wives.  They a wanted western life and attitude

[Gebidozo]

As someone who has been living in East Asia for over 20 years and has experience in relationships with Asian women, allow me to tell you this.

The kind of Asian women you’re looking for, “non-Americanized” ones, highly traditional ones, are probably either not going to want to date a foreigner at all, or will do that for the reasons that you (rightfully) fear: to use him as a stepping stone towards better life.

Independent, modern Asian women won’t have any problem dating a foreigner simply because they find him attractive, or moving to any country because they just want to live and probably work there.

But those modern Asian women will differ from their traditionalist counterparts more than from the “Americanized” Asian women that you appear to have little interest in.

 

[PassionatelyCurious]

On 4/3/2026 at 8:37 AM, introverted1 said:

So you want to meet women who don't mind being fetishized but who also want a "genuine" connection with a man on another continent?

Good luck.

Do you even know what the meaning of "fetishized" actually is, or were you so anxious to post your reactionary, ill-considered straw man attack that you didn't think it through before you tried to fulfill your clear desperate need for self-aggrandizement via attacking others?

Number one, look up the definition of "fetishize". Number two, what in any of what I wrote there indicates this is a "fetish"? In fact, I make it quite clear I do NOT want it to be purely a superficial (sexual) thing - I want something genuine. You're aware of this, even use my exact word "genuine", yet just before it, use a term that completely contradicts that intent. You're either very confused, or don't know English very well...

You accuse someone of "fetishizing" if they say they prefer one skin color over another? You think it's "fetishizing" if they want someone with their same political views? I mean really, what are you thinking behind that keyboard???

[PassionatelyCurious]

On 4/3/2026 at 7:16 PM, basil67 said:

This reads like "yellow fever".   I say this Asian women come from many different countries, but you talk as if their culturess and attitudes are all the same.  

FWIW, I used to work with Japanese women.  They wanted to marry western men so that they wouldn't be expected to be Japanese wives.  They a wanted western life and attitude

Didn't mean to come across that way. It's that the vast majority of them I simply find far more interesting than Americans, as well as from a far more interesting part of the world. I've dated multiple, but only one that was actually born and raised in a part of Asia (Hangzhou). I love everything she told me about her country, but most of it was just confirmation of things I had already heard/known about, as I had the interest long before her. A lot of my own decor is Asian (a unique mix of Gothic/Victorian and Asian). And I think their architectural history is beautiful.

I'm just going to leave it at that, as I know it probably comes off as me continuing to generalize, when I know there are many, many parts of "Asia", all with different cultures, history, architecture, etc. But I would pick literally any of those types of architecture/style over anything you'd find here in America. It's simply my taste.

[ClearEyes-FullHeart]

As someone who lives in the US, why would you want to bring a foreigner here in 2026 with very high odds she will be detained and stuck in a camp? I am speechless.