Does he actually have feelings for me?

[GoodVibess]

I am 25 and he is 22 we matched on and off for a year on FB dating. We rematched a couple weeks ago and he messaged me and he told me to have my Sunday freed and I did. I didn’t have any plans on Sunday to begin with so we ended up meeting we had dinner. It was nice seeing him. I actually found him more attractive in person than online for the end of the day. He told me that he had a really good time and that we should have a second date and the second date happened two days ago and it was great as well. We had our first kiss and then yesterday we went on our 3rd date because I was in the area. overall, he’s really nice to talk to. He has paid for all those 3 dates and has opened the car door for me every time and has been respectful. I am starting to catch feelings. He told me he likes me a lot but he is not in love with me yet. I am a little concerned because those three times that we have met. It’s been great but he doesn’t text me much which feels like he’s not as interested as I think he is. He did tell me that he’s not a good Texter and he prefers in person interactions. But I need consistency and he isn’t showing that on text. He texts me like twice a day and it’s throwing me off. I also have doubts cuz he is only 22 and I feel a lot of guys that age don’t have good intentions. 

[Gebidozo]

3 minutes ago, GoodVibess said:

He has paid for all those 3 dates

Why?

You didn’t even offer to pay or share?

 

4 minutes ago, GoodVibess said:

He told me he likes me a lot but he is not in love with me yet.

Well, of course. It would have been a red flag if he told you he was in love with you after only three dates.

 

6 minutes ago, GoodVibess said:

He texts me like twice a day and it’s throwing me off.

As in… you think that this is not enough?

Seriously?

If someone I’ve been on three dates with told me she is concerned because I “only” text her twice per day I’d feel pressured and would probably distance myself.

 

8 minutes ago, GoodVibess said:

he is only 22 and I feel a lot of guys that age don’t have good intentions. 

What are “good intentions”?

If you mean he might have the intention to string you along, lie to you, manipulate you, and so on, then this doesn’t really have much to do with age, sadly people of all ages and genders do that.

If you mean that he doesn’t intend to have a serious relationship with you, then it’s not really “good” versus “bad”, it’s just that both of you have to be very clear and honest about what you expect from this.

[Sony12]

Yes he is only 22. But at the same time you are only 25. Both of you are young and need to just take time getting to know one another. No one can really tell you how interested or not interested he is in you at this point. You two are just going to have to continue going on dates and see where it goes. If it goes somewhere great. If it doesn't you gave it a shot. 

[ShyViolet]

It's only been 3 dates.  That's nothing.  It's too early to jump to conclusions or start worrying about what his intentions are.  He doesn't even know yet.  You barely know each other.  At this stage it's just about getting to know each other.

[ExpatInItaly]

2 hours ago, GoodVibess said:

He told me he likes me a lot but he is not in love with me yet

You realize it would be insane if he were "in love" after 3 dates, right? 

2 hours ago, GoodVibess said:

He texts me like twice a day and it’s throwing me off

Perhaps you are on your phone too much. Twice a day is quite normal in the early stages in particular. Given your past threads,  I would suggest you really step back and adjust your expectations when it comes to men and dating. You have had many...chaotic experiences. Don't turn this into one, too. 

[Gebidozo]

26 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said:

You have had many...chaotic experiences.

Just checked the OP’s previous threads and… yes.

Also, the OP said this about a year ago:

I’m 24 this year and I’m desperately looking for a husband. I am currently seeing a 19 year old but I’m not sure if he even wants a relationship. At this point I am ready to marry anyone who comes my way. I want a relationship and i’m getting old. I want a family. I’m broken because every other relationship failed, Im tired of being single. I fear I will be 30 and still on dating apps. 
 

OP, I hope you realize that this kind of thinking is going to repel any normal man.

Nobody wants to feel pressured like that, especially into being with someone who’d literally “marry anyone who comes her way”.