Am I overreacting how my husband acted with another girl

[Anonymous]

Hi everyone I wanted to get your opinion on a few situations. My husband and I attended EDC Mexico music festival this past weekend. Side Note: He was very tipsy the whole night.

During the festival, we both lost each other. When I found him, he was talking to a younger girl (we’re both 33 and she is 25). Side note: they both speak Spanish and I don’t, so he had to translate a lot. She was crying because her friends abandoned her so my husband and I stayed with her during the whole festival. The girl and I were dancing together a lot. I also noticed my husband held her hand, danced with her as well, and brushed her hair away from her face. I’m not sure if I’m overreacting for this part in case he just wanted to include her so she doesn't feel left out.

Another situation was at the end of the festival when we were walking out, the girl told my husband that she had to use the bathroom. He told me to stand where I was and he took the girl to the bathroom. I thought this was wrong because he should’ve asked me to come with them. I felt it was wrong he was leaving me alone especially since I don’t speak Spanish, and what if we got lost again.

Last situation was the girl asked if she could sleep at our place until the morning. We said ok because she looked scared and we didn’t want her to not have any place to go. My husband slept on the left side of the bed first, she slept in the middle, and I slept on the right side. I told my husband he should have commented to the girl that I should have been the one to sleep in the middle.

I don’t feel like either of them had bad intentions, but I wished my husband reacted differently in all situations.

Please let me know your thoughts. Thank you very much.

[Gebidozo]

The hand-holding, the brushing her hair away, the walking her to the toilet was already bad enough.

But of course the craziest part is this:

 

2 hours ago, Anonymous said:

My husband slept on the left side of the bed first, she slept in the middle, and I slept on the right side. I told my husband he should have commented to the girl that I should have been the one to sleep in the middle.

Unless you guys are swingers or something like this, why on Earth would either of you invite a stranger into your bed?

Having her spend the night in your house was already a very strange move, to say the least.

But having her sleep in your actual bed? There are no couches in your apartment? No floor to put a mattress on?

I can’t fathom why you would agree to that.

 

[Sanch62]

Oh, c'mOn. There was no couch in your home for her to sleep on?

[flitzanu]

yeah this whole thing is weird if real.

randomly found a poor lost girl at an EDC with thousands of people.

took her home and slept with her in your bed.

sounds like more to the story.