queenie01 Posted January 18, 2006 Posted January 18, 2006 I have a question for everyone. I recently started dating a new guy and things are going great, we spend a lot of time together and have a TON in common but im just taking each day as it comes with us. I am leaving for Vegas on Friday and coming home Monday, im wondering if i should call him at all while im in vegas or not? Part of me says no because hes not my bf but part of me thinks maybe i should call him on like sunday just to say hi. What do you guys think?
slubberdegullion Posted January 18, 2006 Posted January 18, 2006 Ask him. "Would you like me to call you when I'm away?" Then use that as your answer.
TUDOR Posted January 18, 2006 Posted January 18, 2006 The answer to this one all depends on whether he has ever been to Vegas or not. If he has been...then yes you call him just to say hi or what ever. If he hasn't been then go have fun and don't worry about calling unless you just want to.
Lil Honey Posted January 18, 2006 Posted January 18, 2006 Tudor: What does his experiencing Vegas have to do with it?
Author queenie01 Posted January 18, 2006 Author Posted January 18, 2006 Oh hes been to Vegas several times.... Just wondering if a guy would expect a call or not?
TUDOR Posted January 18, 2006 Posted January 18, 2006 Vegas is a playground for adults. Those that have been know this and know how much fun and potential to be naughty or bad there is. The city practically encourages it with their "what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas" theme. The don't call in Sin City for nothing. So if he has been there he will naturally be more concerend or at least on his mind what she is up to while there and will appreciate a "check in" phone call more than if he has never been there.
lilmoma1973 Posted January 18, 2006 Posted January 18, 2006 Why do you feel you should call him? You aren't obligated to him you only went out ,he isn't your bf !! Call him after you come back from Vegas ..
Author queenie01 Posted January 18, 2006 Author Posted January 18, 2006 I know im not obligated to call him but sort of feel i should considering we are "dating" We have hungout about 12-15 times... We arent bf/gf tho, no labels...
PlentyLV007 Posted January 19, 2006 Posted January 19, 2006 I went to Vegas for New Years, now I at the time just started seeing someone for about 2 weeks...he knew I was going, yet still when I was over there took the time to text me...hey and what not....now I called him back and he actually told me he missed me. That shocked me but, it was sweet. I say you let him know...he can call you if he wants to....I mean I don't see what the big deal is.... I'm sure the guy I was seeing didn't expect me to call him, yet he made it clear letting me know he was thinking of me.
Lil Honey Posted January 19, 2006 Posted January 19, 2006 Tudor: Ahhh . . . yes . . . that makes sense . . .
Maryanne Posted January 19, 2006 Posted January 19, 2006 why don't you send a quick one-line "having fun, wish you were here" text? you wont have to interrupt your trip to talk to him, and it's much lower pressure than the phone call (esp since he's not your bf), but it still lets him know that you're thinking about him...just a little...while you're away.
l2hvn Posted January 19, 2006 Posted January 19, 2006 just tell him you're going to Vegas for the weekend.. if he likes you, he will check up on you. if not... then you can call him when you get back... you're in no way obligated to call him while there.. unless you really want to.. but if i were you, i wouldn't call.. this reminds me of when i went to Vegas (for a long weekend) a while back. i was seeing this guy, casually, and informed him of my trip. well guess what.. i got 2 text msgs from him, and then a couple of phone calls.... i guess he was a little worried i'd be having way too much fun without him. and i did... so go out there. have fun with your friends and don't worry too much about him.... and when you get back, just play it off when he asks you if you had a lot of fun... you know, sort of like that commercial on tv --- vegas is your alibi....
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