Is this the passion a real man desires? What I described

[Barbara3]

What do you think about this message?: If I really am the woman of your dreams, I’d show you what it’s like when a woman truly desires you from the heart. I’d seduce you in sexy and provocative outfits, I’d dance for you, I’d shake my ass just for you, I’d kiss you passionately, touch you, and we’d spoil each other. We’d make love in front of the mirror and completely give ourselves to one another. You’d never get tired of me. You wouldn’t just desire me; you’d be proud to have me by your side. You’d grab my ass, and I’d feel exactly how much you want me. And I’d fulfill every secret desire you have, because I’m only your bad girl. We could even travel to my favorite country, Spain; we’d laugh, have fun, and enjoy each other’s company. We could even make love on a hotel terrace or anywhere else. I’d do everything for you, and I’d make sure no other woman even crosses your mind. We wouldn’t just love each other; we’d be crazy about each other. I don’t just want sex from you; I want you to be my partner. Are you ready to experience this kind of pleasure with me?

[flitzanu]

it sounds like you're way more into this than him and that you're trying to convince a guy to give you a chance.

[FredEire]

42 minutes ago, flitzanu said:

it sounds like you're way more into this than him and that you're trying to convince a guy to give you a chance.

Yeah.

It's going to scare most guys off. If he feels this way about you it will be obvious and he'll be saying it himself. If you have to try and convince him, it will send him further the opposite direction.

There's no context here but it reads like a classic situationship where you are crazy about this guy and he feels its a nice hookup but nothing more.

[ShyViolet]

It sounds like trying too hard.  Like desperately throwing yourself at someone.  

 

[basil67]

I think the author sounds desperate.  And like she has the potential to be a bunny boiler and has an inflated sense of self importance.  And has a binary view of what a "real man" wants.

And what is a "real man" anyway?   

Edited yesterday at 08:51 PM by basil67

[FredEire]

11 minutes ago, basil67 said:

I think the author sounds desperate.  And like she has the potential to be a bunny boiler and has an inflated sense of self importance.  And has a binary view of what a "real man" wants.

And what is a "real man" anyway?   

Probably someone who is really doing it for her in bed.

But it sticks out to me that the message in OP is all about sex and sexual fantasy. IMO if a girl is leading with fulfilling sexual desires rather than anything emotional its a sign that she doesnt feel she's got much more to offer and there probably isn't much of a basis to the relationship apart from that.

I'm going on the assumption they've already slept together a few times. Sure, both parties might really enjoy the sex initially but if there's nothing beyond that the relationship is going to fizzle once the novelty and excitement has worn off a bit, and getting more racy with him isn't going to change that.

[Els]

Ehhhh honestly sounds like one of those messages you see when you check the Spam folder in your email and immediately regret it...

[Gebidozo]

I’m a man and I think this message is off-putting and cringeworthy, bordering on disturbing.

Yes, most men desire passion, but passion isn’t a product that you have to advertise in a crude, cliche-ridden way, hoping for someone to buy it.

Don’t talk about how passionate you are, that’s a turn off. Simply be passionate.

Show, don’t tell.

 

Edited 21 hours ago by Gebidozo

[ExpatInItaly]

11 hours ago, Barbara3 said:

What do you think about this message?

It sounds like the writer has no clue how to actually interest and keep a man. 

[Alpacalia]

Sounds like a bunch of sexting to someone that isn't all that into it.

[Sanch62]

It's overkill. It's also patronizing.