How to go about hiring escorts for my reasons?

[Anonymous]

I normally wouldn't ever pay for sex, but I am only doing this for so long (until I do not suck).  I lost my virginity last year at 29, because I made decent money only then. Not one woman stayed afterwards, and the first was the worst.  She sent 12 texts all angry at me for the bad sex, and she definitely now laughs with her girl friends about it.

 

I had about 6 more encounters last year, all resulting in the women leaving me after only one time having sex.  

 

So, I now have both have a body count of 7 and a “times of having sex” count of 7, because not one woman came back for more sex.  I never even got to round 2 because the women just left beforehand.  
 

I know the best bet would be to find a "patient woman" but that's hard AF to find, and many women wonder "what's wrong with this bastard for being nearly 30 as a virgin" for men at this point.  Then word gets around and even more people tend to judge.  So, I found it better to be silent to avoid that type of humiliation.  This year, I’m just gonna hire escorts to gain skills I didn’t get before.  For how long should I hire them before meeting normal women again?

[Gebidozo]

There is so much wrong with your reasoning that I don’t even know where to start.

1) Why would you disclose your virginity to casual sex partners?

2) In which world is a man who has slept with 7 women a virgin or nearly a virgin?

3) Where do you even find such mean women that angrily complain about sex? I’ve had several bad and embarrassing performances in my life. No woman has ever been angry and they were all patient and understanding.

4) Casual sex partners leaving after one time isn’t uncommon. That’s why these things are called “one night stands”. It doesn’t mean that you were bad. You’re hooking up with random women and for some reason expect them to come for more.

5) If you want more sex with the same person, start dating normally and form a relationship.

6) Sleeping with escorts won’t make you better in bed.

7) Personally, I don’t think it’s always wrong or immoral to sleep with prostitutes. If you’re just craving for sex, by all means, go for it. But you should know that this is a surrogate that will probably never fulfill your true desires and is most likely to make you feel even angrier and more desperate.

8 ) While I personally wouldn’t be together with a woman who can’t accept the fact that I’ve slept with prostitutes in the past, for some women it is a dealbreaker or at least a significant turn off. Hiring escorts will therefore lower your chances of finding a partner.

9) Most importantly, I think you should calm down. You sound very impatient and somewhat entitled. Perhaps you should try to start seeing sex as something that happens organically between two people who feel attracted to each other rather than something you must “get” at all costs.

 

[FredEire]

To be honest you come across as still having a kind of teenage mentality of viewing sex and relationships as "scoring some hot b****es" or whatever.

The best way to improve at sex is to practice with a girl whos patient and understanding and likes your personality.

I reckon you might have scared those women away your whole life and now youre left with drama queens who are only getting with you because it might come with a nice luxury dinner.

I don't think getting an escort habit will make you feel any better or make the kind of women you're dating respect you any more when they dont have any respect for themselves.