Why do most of the women I date want sex, but not a relationship?

[Sanch62]

12 hours ago, Acacia98 said:

... your goal isn't to settle down with most people.

I think I've experienced a bit of the  female version of what you're describing. I've just had to accept that I'm in a minority and most people are not going to appreciate that style of dating/connecting, that perhaps I am a bit "weird" for my context. 

Yes, exactly. The goal of those of us who are monogamous is to skip mass marketing to please the 'most people' and screen all the way down to a niche of One.

So dallying around with anyone whom you can tell is not on your page makes no sense. It wastes your time and does zero for your ego to stick around until such a match reaches its inevitable ending.

Why play that out? When you sense that forming the depth of connection you're seeking isn't possible with an otherwise lovely person, do both her and yourself the favor of letting them go so you can both move forward to find your person. Head high.

[Shehaari]

17 hours ago, Repentant said:

Sorry about the late reply to this, missed it in the deluge:)) 

Thank you so much! I genuinely hope with all my heart that you'll manage to find that deep connection as well, we deserve to find the kind of love we desire!

Haha, no worries- it's definitely the time-zone difference:) 

We've got this!