Is my female best friend, sexually attracted to me? Need a womans point of view if possible

[GeorgeK]

Is my female best friend, sexually attracted to me? Need a womans point of view if possible

 

Right. Hello everybody. I have been friends with this girl for 10 years at least. She has been always into lasting relationships, I on the other hand I'm not into commitments and into wild erotic life. We knew each others datings.

A couple of years ago, she sent me a quite spicy selfie, which I did shout at her to cut it off... She doesn't deserve this, she will fall to low if she has erotic moments with me, she'll end up just another hourly woman in my life..... So things went back to normal untill recently...

I did a couple of sidejobs in the summer and I ended up with a nice amount of money. So I decided to take her with me for a week in Italy, fully paid by me. Hotel, room, food, roadtrips etc, as a thank you for being such a wonderful friend in all my low moments and hard times in this 10 years. But  due to respect, I booked two seperate beds and I asked her, look, we are adults...

A couple of days ago we met to discuss my plans... At some point I said look.... There is something I haven't thought off.... We are adults and hormones are hormones.... We are going for one week in the same room... It's better if we avoid trickering each other.. I propose you bring underware I don't like.... She said no, she will bring the underwear she likes (Which are quite spicy).... I didn't said anything, but I will buy some for her (The ones I don't like and when we get there find a way for her to wear those)... Then I said, when was the last time you had erotic encounters, she said months ago, so I said look... You really need to have an erotic encounter before we go. She asked will you? I said yeah, I am flirting with 3 women, 2 of them we did arrange to meet and hook up before we go. She said, I don't know if I will. I am not talking to someone interesting enough. I said, ok, then when you go to Italy, when you see someone you like, it's ok with me to take him back to the hotel room, have intimate moments with the guy, I will just walk around the city till you are done (She has a fantasy hooking up with a latin lover). She said, I can't do that to you.... I said, it's a dangerous path you know, let's not go into that. I'm going to have hookups in a few days and you should do too.... She didn't said anything, she just stood up, lift her skirt up to her waste, she showed me her stockings which had fur and asked me if I thought that it would keep her warm, as in Italy when we will go, it will be really cold... I just said it's fine, but I need to go so I left...

That's the story. I'm I wrong or is she really interested of hooking up with me when we get to Italy

[Gebidozo]

I don’t know whether she is interested and, being a man, I don’t know how exactly she might have perceived your offer.

I can only say that I would never take a female friend on a trip where we stay in the same hotel room. I would also never talk with a female friend with so much sexual innuendo, mentioning her underwear or suggesting she have an erotic encounter with someone.

In short, regardless of what she thinks, I think that you shouldn’t go on such trips and talk like that with a woman unless you’re interested in her romantically.

If the genders were reversed, if a woman asked me to go with her on a trip with a shared hotel room, inquire me about my underwear, and suggest I hook up with some women, 100% I’ll think that the woman is interested in me romantically.