Message from the Trenches

[Lady Cathryn]

If anybody out there is even considering an affair with someone involved in a marriage or a significant other… Don’t do it.

These things never work out well. We are trying to fulfill something lacking inside ourselves. That is the true thing that needs to be examined.

Sometimes affairs are a trauma bond. Sometimes your puzzle pieces matches the person you’re having an affair with.

It’s only when you go through a very dark and dismal night of the soul that you understand that there is something you really need to heal inside yourself.

And it might take decades, because I am 70 now, and I finally understand why I get involved with relationships that are chaotic.

I told my married man when I met him that he reminded me of my father. That was so prophetic. He was emotionally unavailable. He could not supply any emotional support. I was correct all along with my intuition not just about me about him as well. His childhood traumas.

So pause and look at yourself that’s all I can say why did you do this? Why did you attract this?

it’s been a long row to hoe for me. And I did tell my MM in the end that is painful as it was it taught me what I needed to examine within me. I also said to him, you might need to do the same.

Edited 4 hours ago by Lady Cathryn
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