loveheart59 Posted January 18, 2006 Posted January 18, 2006 I know I started a thread b4 about one of my friends wanting breast implants. Well I was delving into her psyche to find out why exactly she wanted them she said because she feel bad on the beach and feels as if shes not normal which is understandable:( . Then she said "I want people to like me", of course I told her she was talking crap. She is pretty and very attractive in general and always stands out in a crowd and tends to get approached by 15-20 men a week. She said the guys who she likes "the nice ones" dont look at her ( but that doesn't neccesarily mean they don't find her attractive?) Plus they usually have a curvy bevvy of beauties with perfect make up around them and that makes her feel even worse. I think theres a tendency for people who have surgery to have unrealistic expectations of how other people will react. She said "If I am nice then how come I haven't got anyone?" Shes just split up with her boyfriend after 3 years so Im not sure what she meant. It sounds like she wants a brilliantly good looking man to ask to marry her and thinks the reason it hasn't happened is because of her breast size. Also subconciously shes thinking if she has a more sexualized body her boyfriend/husband wont cheat on her. The only reason I'm worried about her in particular is because shes quite proper when it comes to sex, this guy she knows sent her a text out of the blue asking if she wanted to give him oral sex she started crying. I think eveyone I know with big butts and/or big boobs has to deal with that kind of attention along with the glory of it and Im not sure shes that type of person. She might find that this is the kind of attention the "playboys" give her, I know she will meet someone nice but Im sure it wont be off the back of this op.
ReluctantRomeo Posted January 18, 2006 Posted January 18, 2006 Well I was delving into her psyche to find out why exactly she wanted them Maybe to attract guys? I'm guessing it's not to have somewhere convenient to stand her coffee Seriously though, it does sound like she has some self-esteem issues. Getting a man won't solve these, although it may postpone them.
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