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Hey, I (m/16) have a question about a girl (f/17) from my sports club. We went ice skating recently with a group of people. A friend of mine was supposed to come along, but he canceled at the last minute, so I went with five girls.

The girl in question (let's call her Luise) was with me about 90% of the time. She kept waiting for me, even though she could have gone with her friends. Her friend even asked me later if I liked Luise and said we'd be a good match.

After the skating session, Luise messaged me privately to say it was really fun – even though we have a group chat where she could have posted that.

Now we're planning to go ice skating again this week. I asked in the group chat who was free, and in the end, basically no one except Luise said yes. I suggested we could go just the two of us since I wanted to go anyway, and she immediately said, "That doesn't bother me." So, we're actually going out together now.

I just don't know if I'm reading too much into it or if she might actually be interested. I've never experienced anything like this before, so I'm unsure.

My question is: Do these signs sound more like interest to you, or more like normal friendliness? And how would you, as an outsider, interpret it?

Thanks so much in advance!

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There isn’t enough information here.

She could be interested romantically, or she could be just friendly.

The only way to know for sure is to steer the date in a romantic direction and continue having one-on-one dates with her if she is showing romantic interest.

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