I told his wife…

[sandylee1]

On 12/7/2025 at 10:08 PM, Anonymous said:

Forgive me, as I am not taking it out on you, I am just working through a ton of emotions and I have sort of isolated myself. I just want to know why he gets to walk away consequence free. Why he just dropped this life and picked up the other. Why I am in pain and heartbreak and yet he is not affected at all. It’s just not fair. I am suffering and he literally moved on like I was nothing. 

She told you she has known for years. Knowledge is power. She had been making decisions in full knowledge of his infidelity. 

That gives her the upper hand and if she's wanted all this time, she could play away too ...knowing that if he caught her, she's knew about your affair.

Take time to heal from the end of the affair and move on with your life. You can enter 2026 without the stress and uncertainty that he has brought to your life.

[Lady Cathryn]

Sometimes the path to freedom is to burn every single bridge. Not leaving a tiny door open. Not believing that things will be different one day. It won’t. Never think that merry Christmas email or text means a damn thing it doesn’t not to them.

I have a lot of guilt about telling his wife via email. I would not have if he had ever taken accountability or responsibility for our fair. It was all on me he couldn’t resist me. My emotions? Oh that was all on me. He couldn’t deal with my emotions. It’s a long story, but it’s a sad story about two people. Don’t make your story sad please don’t make your story learning experience and a very hard one