Still Hoping for Something Genuine

[ClaraB]

 

I haven’t been the luckiest when it comes to relationships, but I’m still hopeful. I’ve met people who seemed promising at first, but things just didn’t work out. It happens, and I’m learning not to beat myself up about it. Right now, I’m just trying to stay open and keep a good heart. I believe the right person will come when it’s meant to happen, without forcing anything.

I’m sharing this here because I know I’m not the only one who feels this way. If you’ve had similar experiences or you’re also hoping for something real, feel free to share. It’s always nice to hear from people who understand

 

[Gebidozo]

Thank you for posting this.

I’m almost 50 and the best relationship of my life started only 3 years ago, preceded by years of breakups, divorces, heartbreaks, and moment of utter despair.

It’s always possible to find a good partner and have a good relationship at any age.

Instead of losing hope and forcing bad relationships to happen, we should work on our issues and strive to become the best versions of ourselves, so that we’re in a good mental shape when a suitable partner does appear.

[FredEire]

Yeah 32M here and I'm the same.

Dating has become a real discouraging grind now and Im not sure if its the culture changing, passing my 20s or a combination of both. I figure its most likely the latter.

Its good to keep in mind that you only need to meet one person who's right for you. There seem to be less and less people out there who are actually open to dating but you have to keep going with an open mind.

[maryforu]

Hello! I completely agree that the time will come but you've to go and do things to meet new people. You won't find the person or meet anyone new in your place inside your confort zone. I'm saying this not thinking that you're doing it but to encourage you to do new things and to go out from the confort zone.