Wife cheating on business travel

[ginner]

My Chinese wife travels alone to visit clients and suppliers around SE Asia at least once a month. She usually doesn't take calls from me at night as she says that she often joins them for dinner and drinks after work. 

In recent months, she has been taking last minute trips, often just for a day or two even on a weekend, instead of her usual 1-week trips. 

She admits that she gets hit on by people from work all the time. 

Am I reading too much into this or is she cheating while she's away? She's in her mid 40s but looks a decade younger and still turns heads esp when she dresses up. 

[Gebidozo]

So your evidence of her alleged cheating consists of her being attractive and taking business trips?

If that is all, then yes, you’re reading too much into it, and that’s an understatement. It feels like you have some insecurities and possibly trust issues.

Is there anything else happening that makes you feel that your wife is cheating on you?

 

Edited 20 hours ago by Gebidozo

[ginner]

11 hours ago, Gebidozo said:

So your evidence of her alleged cheating consists of her being attractive and taking business trips?

If that is all, then yes, you’re reading too much into it, and that’s an understatement. It feels like you have some insecurities and possibly trust issues.

Is there anything else happening that makes you feel that your wife is cheating on you?

 

I just found out that she had taken overseas vacations with other men over the past year. 

So it's not my insecurity and trust issue.

[Gebidozo]

4 hours ago, ginner said:

I just found out that she had taken overseas vacations with other men over the past year. 

So it's not my insecurity and trust issue.

She has taken overseas vacations and you didn’t know about that? What did she tell you?

What do you mean “with other men”? Just she and one man every time, on a private vacation? Or she and a group of men she works with?

[Els]

22 hours ago, ginner said:

Am I reading too much into this or is she cheating while she's away?

How can we possibly know based on the information provided???

[Sony12]

Is she getting paid by these men? You make it sound like she is possibly part of an escort service.

Edited 3 hours ago by Sony12