UT_longhorn Posted January 18, 2006 Posted January 18, 2006 "No one has the power or right to determine your happiness." The loss of a loved one may bring pain, but its only you that has the power to allow yourself to feel happiness again.
Ezydriver Posted January 18, 2006 Posted January 18, 2006 You're right, I think that is perhaps one of the primary lessons to be learnt from breakup, it also enables you to carry that learnt lesson on for the rest of your life, thats where maturity and wisdom stem from. I feel so excited at putting it all into practice one day, the sun is shining again! Steve.
Author UT_longhorn Posted January 18, 2006 Author Posted January 18, 2006 steve..your sense of upliftment gives me hope. i too see the light at the end of the tunnel where i was so deep that i couldn't see the end of the deep cave of hurt.
Ezydriver Posted January 18, 2006 Posted January 18, 2006 I've only just seen the light though, nearly 9 weeks on from the split, got a little way to go, but hell, its her loss, really it is. It won't be until she really gets her heart broken that'll she'll learn what we've learnt, I pity her!!! Steve. p.s. Hang in there buddy, it sounds like you're finally coming through!
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