A man I used to be only casually involved with asked to spend time together and is showing a lot of changes in his behavior. How should I proceed to explore this safely?

[smackie9]

Just stop....you have known him long enough....he's too undecided and you ain't got time for this nonsense. Boot him to the curb for Christ sakes. He's already used up enough of your time and youth. 

[stillafool]

On 11/19/2025 at 12:59 PM, Anonymous said:

Yes definitely I do. I would love to settle down with the right man and I’ve been going on a lot of dates recently although I get along the best with this guy. 

The reason why I’m scared is that when I ended things with him last time over phone, he told me he just didn’t feel anything romantic for me and that maybe it was his fault and we needed to spend more time together. So I’m afraid he’s playing me or that he doesn’t actually like me, although my intuition keeps telling me he’s catching feelings 

He's definitely not playing you if he were he wouldn't have told you he didn't feel anything romantic for you.  No guy tells a woman he wants that.  I would take him at his word.