JoEY09 Posted January 17, 2006 Posted January 17, 2006 Im not an experienced person at all when it comes to girls, so, please guys-girls i really need help. i met this girls 7 months ago in a birthday party, we shared conversations, took emails, started being chat friends after a month, then after 4 months we started calling eachother, and now we have been friends in phone for lik 4 months. we had a small fight, the fight ended up with a subject *our friendship is not moving forword* she confessed she wants to build a very strong friendship with me and told me she wanna meet me soon, we met two days in a row, then again today in some gathering.. not to mention: she is the kind of people who is very protected about her close friends and ofcourse when it comes to chosing a boy friend. * she doesnt let anyone to enter her life that easy* right now: especialy after we met, she is changing on me, i feel she is changing her mind about me and i have no idea why, and no idea wat to do? wat did ( strong friendship ) meant to her ?, some people told me it meant morethan just friends, i dont have xperience at all in this area, please help me with all you can , should i be cold with her ? or should i go with the flow? or wat wat. thanx alot
slubberdegullion Posted January 18, 2006 Posted January 18, 2006 Be clear with her. If you want to sail in the good ship "friend," then by all means go ahead. But if you want more than friendship and something more intimate, you'd be well advised to make that known to her, clearly and directly, very soon. Once you're stuck in the friend zone, whereby you're basically a girlfriend with testicles, the chances of you getting out of that zone and into something more close are pretty damn slim. I speak from bitter experience here. Good luck.
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