Anonymous Posted October 27 Posted October 27 I have a low sperm count and I never could impregnate my wife. She got seduced by a co worker and he got her pregnant. She has apologized but wants to keep the child. Should I support her and help raise the child ?
S2B Posted October 28 Posted October 28 Wow, you mean she willingly had sex with someone outside your marriage and is pregnant. place the blame where it belongs - your wife willingly participated. no, I wouldn’t be capable of staying. She betrays you too easily and expects you to be responsible for all the expenses for someone else’s child.
Bobby Posted October 28 Posted October 28 I don’t think an apology for infidelity is enough to fix things. There would be a lot more talking involved before I could consider moving past the betrayal.
Sanch62 Posted October 29 Posted October 29 (edited) This sounds too complex for a poll of strangers to be of much help. I can only speak for myself. When it comes to disloyalty, I'm not interested in vilifying anyone--it all just comes down to how I want to live my own life. Remaining involved with someone I can't trust doesn't fit that vision. I'd wish that person good luck and move forward without looking back. I'd grieve, heal, and pursue a relationship with someone deserving of the loving trust I also deserve. If that means someday raising an adopted child or one conceived through a sperm donor, then that would be a planned choice with a loyal partner--not one inflicted on me by an un-trust-worthy partner. Edited October 29 by Sanch62 2
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