Wife got pregnant by lover

[Anonymous]

I have a low sperm count and I never could impregnate my wife.

She got seduced by a co worker and he got her pregnant. She has apologized but wants to keep the child.

Should I support her and help raise the child ?

[S2B]

Wow, you mean she willingly had sex with someone outside your marriage and is pregnant.

place the blame where it belongs - your wife willingly participated.

no, I wouldn’t be capable of staying. She betrays you too easily and expects you to be responsible for all the expenses for someone else’s child. 

[Bobby]

I don’t think an apology for infidelity is enough to fix things.   There would be a lot more talking involved before I could consider moving past the betrayal.  

[Sanch62]

This sounds too complex for a poll of strangers to be of much help. I can only speak for myself. When it comes to disloyalty, I'm not interested in vilifying anyone--it all just comes down to how I want to live my own life.

Remaining involved with someone I can't trust doesn't fit that vision. I'd wish that person good luck and move forward without looking back.

I'd grieve, heal, and pursue a relationship with someone deserving of the loving trust I also deserve. If that means someday raising an adopted child or one conceived through a sperm donor, then that would be a planned choice with a loyal partner--not one inflicted on me by an un-trust-worthy partner.

Edited October 29 by Sanch62