honeybunch2k5 Posted January 17, 2006 Posted January 17, 2006 Hi, this is kind of a spin off of another thread. What are the traits men value in women? I'm really lost. I am fairly attractive, in good shape, like sex, have a good sense of humor, but it's just hard to find a guy and have a mutual interest in him. Do men like women to look a certain way? And does it hurt if a woman gives up sex too soon? Top ten lists of what you like in a woman would be greatly appreciated:cool:
Wonder125 Posted January 17, 2006 Posted January 17, 2006 I am curious how old you are first of all. It is hard for a WOMEN to find a guy is because women have no guts. What women do not understand is men would find it so flattering if a women for once had some guts and approached a guy and stopped waiting for the guy to approach them. Girls like to sit there and just build up their egos by teasing guys or wearing skimpy close and just listen to the comment that come out when they walk past guys. This is how they elevate their egos. Problem is they do not want to shrink their ego by getting shot down if it does happen. NO GUTS. Guys approach women all the time and women want to know why THEY can't find what they want. Women fail to realize that the ball is really in their court It is like ME WAITING for a car dealership to call me up and say we have this car or we have that car and then me start to wonder why I have not found the kind of car I am looking for. DUH! FACT: If you are out in a public place any you catch a guy checking you out more than 2 times. If you approach him, you will not get shot down. He will definitely not disrespect either. This is a fact. #1 Someone who has a good heart, no one like to be stomped on #2 A girl with self respect, someone who is not gonna go around and sleep with tons of guys #3 Someone who is not full of themself #4 Someone who has their head on straight and has a plan in life and not just in life to party 24-7 #5 Someone who takes care of themself, health conscious, no one likes a totally out of shape person, I don't mean they have to be a string bean, I personally dislike really thin girls There is my top 5
slubberdegullion Posted January 17, 2006 Posted January 17, 2006 Good thread. I had a hunch something like this was going to emerge sooner or later. My top ten list (in no particular order):Physical attraction;Brains;Sense of humour;Appreciative of me & my efforts;Gets along well with her family & my family & friends;Sexually willing (yes, even if it's on the first date, and even if she's slept around... doesn't really bother me);Well read;Good energy level;Enthusiasm for her life & career;In control of herself (ie: the world doesn't have to come to a grinding halt because she's having her period). Now, I certainly don't go around with a list in my pocket and make notes as I meet women to see if I can check things on the list. But the more I'm around them, the more I learn, and the more I learn about them, the more I can tell whether or not the relationship will have "legs." A point about attraction: Height is not a big issue with me. I prefer long hair, but that's not a deal breaker. But as shallow as it may sound, I have little physical attraction to someone who is overweight. I mean, if it's 5 or 10 pounds, that's well within normal healthy limits. But at about 20 lbs and beyond, my physical attraction to them plummets. dives behind Abrams A1M1 tank
a4a Posted January 17, 2006 Posted January 17, 2006 Good thread. But as shallow as it may sound, I have little physical attraction to someone who is overweight. I mean, if it's 5 or 10 pounds, that's well within normal healthy limits. But at about 20 lbs and beyond, my physical attraction to them plummets. dives behind Abrams A1M1 tank Damn Slub you are shallow too just like me......... My H tells me that was his list of expectations just about also. Along with the ability to deal with problems added to the list...... no barbie cry babies a4a
BlahBlahQueen Posted January 17, 2006 Posted January 17, 2006 dives behind Abrams A1M1 tank Why? That's a very well-rounded and reasonable expectation list.
slubberdegullion Posted January 17, 2006 Posted January 17, 2006 Why? That's a very well-rounded and reasonable expectation list. The overweight issue has caused considerable angst and wrath, hence the dive for cover.
BlahBlahQueen Posted January 18, 2006 Posted January 18, 2006 The overweight issue has caused considerable angst and wrath, hence the dive for cover. To say you're wrong for preferring a certain body type is as silly as saying I'm wrong for strongly favoring green eyes. Which I do, almost to the point of exclusion. Everyone has the right to be attracted to whatever they want.
Defcon Posted January 18, 2006 Posted January 18, 2006 In my opinion it has always seemed if the girl gives up sex too 'easy' that the guy is "satisfied" to a extent but deep down he might not be able to trust you, and if that is the problem. It will get worse over the course of the relationship.
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