I still love her, but I feel resentment and have kind of toxic thoughts...

[Anonymous]

I'm still recovering from the bad breakup and can't get my ex out of my head. I hope she finds happiness and that I won't care when I move on, but right now I'm having some toxic thoughts... I want her to feel sad about the breakup, to remember our best moments together, that many things will remind her of me just as they violently remind me of her, and that it all will motivate her to reciprocate my offer to get back together... I know that's definitely not going to happen. Just my thoughts...

[ExpatInItaly]

19 hours ago, Anonymous said:

I want her to feel sad about the breakup, to remember our best moments together, that many things will remind her of me

These are fairly normal thoughts after a break-up, so don't be too hard on yourself about that. 

Why did you two split, and how long ago?