cnt2infinity Posted January 17, 2006 Posted January 17, 2006 My wife again has gone to far. She is seriously mental and has not been back on her medication for over a year now. Prior to that she was on medication ever since her early teens. She may be bi-polar along with other illnesses. She has also not seen a doctor in a while. These problems seem to run in her family. I am completely scared of her. Her behavior is not acceptable. Her anger is either taken out on my six-year-old daughter or me. Sometimes she can be okay. I don’t want my daughter to go through this and witness her behavior. She threatens my daughter and she threatens our relationship over silly little things. I have been blackmailed/threatened in 80% of the arguments we have. She has been in a hospital several times. I cannot continue to love her anymore. She will not get help and always claims I am the root of this all. I strictly do not get involved in her arguments but I observe her behavior and it routinely can be taken out on either my daughter or me. this abuse has to end some how. I dont know what else to do. I simply pray for help every night. I cannot forgive her for the things she has done and she has taken away all that my heart can give her.
witabix Posted January 17, 2006 Posted January 17, 2006 Is there any one you can turn to? Relatives or such like. Given what you say I think you and primarily your daughter need to be protected from this behaviour. I understand you may have lost your love for wife. But please remember she may not be in control herself, so don't let hate creep in here. Do not be tempted to respond in kind. You need to get out of this situation, and you need to get your daughter out of it. You may also want to get someone to help your wife. Do you have a family doctor you can speak to? Does she have any relatives you can talk to? You must protect yourself and your daughter, but in doing that you must not attack your wife. See if you can think of any way to do this? Stay calm. But don't stay inside this maelstrom. Find shelter for your daughter and yourself. Do not think of possessions, think of the three people who are suffering.
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