What should I Do? I wanted kids and marriage with her now I need to think carefully

[Gebidozo]

1 hour ago, Lamron300 said:

Can I explain my exact thinking? We met in May and everything was perfect

Well, you see, there’s the error in your thinking.

Nothing is perfect. Relationships, perhaps least of all. A good initial impression means very little in itself, it’s just a stepping stone towards the real thing.

 

1 hour ago, Lamron300 said:

My ex had nothing in common with me and hated kids, so she would say insane stuff like why do I want to buy a 3 bedroom house? Kids are expensive and annoying and loud (I never ever even mentioned having kids).

Why is that insane? That’s a valid opinion. And kids being expensive and at least occasionally loud and annoying is simply a fact.

 

1 hour ago, Lamron300 said:

It’s just so dreary now after this experience. 

Next time, don’t plan so much and don’t rush into things like you did. Your chances of success will be quite a bit higher.