Out of Line

[Anonymous]

So me n my gf like going out on weekends to bars ,divs ,clubs and she is a very beautiful women with curves .. My only concern is when we go out is she under dressed . She wears short skirts and short tops and has her cleavage exposed..I've gotten into multiple fights because of this..Should I continue dating her or is this getting out of hand ? 

[Gebidozo]

3 hours ago, Anonymous said:

I've gotten into multiple fights because of this

Fights with whom? Because of what, exactly?

 

3 hours ago, Anonymous said:

Should I continue dating her or is this getting out of hand ? 

What’s getting out of hand?

You haven’t provided any information about the problem. Is she flirting with other men a lot? Does she let men touch her inappropriately? Does she hide the fact that you are together when you go out?

Please tell us what exactly is bothering you. I mean, it can’t be the fact that she is wearing sexy clothes, right?

[Sony12]

Many young people enjoy showing off their body. They get a kick out of the looks they get. There is nothing wrong with her doing so as she would just be like a ton of other young people. If you dislike it so much to the point you are going to get in fights over it you probably do need to date someone more conservative.

[Lotsgoingon]

Fights?! What the heck do you mean that you are getting into fights. That's ridiculous, an obvious sign that this relationship is terrible for you and for her. Check your own maturity here. 

BTW: you don't want to tell someone how to dress. She's an adult, right? She dresses as she wants. Now, couples can weigh in on favorite colors and outfits that they like seeing in a partner. But if you think a partner is way out there--inappropriately dressed for the public--then this is not the partner for you.

Why is that not sinking in?

 

 

[Sony12]

Unless she is showing nudity in public or having sex in public than she is free to do as she wishes.

[Els]

Oh dear, an adult woman is going to bars and clubs with her *gasp* cleavage exposed!!! How inappropriate! Quickly, someone find me a string of pearls to clutch... 

[Jack Frost]

3 hours ago, Gebidozo said:

Fights with whom? Because of what, exactly?

 

What’s getting out of hand?

You haven’t provided any information about the problem. Is she flirting with other men a lot? Does she let men touch her inappropriately? Does she hide the fact that you are together when you go out?

Please tell us what exactly is bothering you. I mean, it can’t be the fact that she is wearing sexy clothes, right?

What u mean there isnt any problem yet I've gotten into fights over this shouldn't that be a problem for u buddy ..I mean she gets Cat called from time to time it's really no biggie 

[basil67]

1 hour ago, Jack Frost said:

What u mean there isnt any problem yet I've gotten into fights over this shouldn't that be a problem for u buddy ..I mean she gets Cat called from time to time it's really no biggie 

Who are you fighting and why are you doing it?    You're going to find yourself injured or charged for assault if you keep this up

Edit: I just noticed your last thread was also about insecurity.  Are you assaulting your wife/gf? 

Edited October 1 by basil67