PlentyLV007 Posted January 16, 2006 Posted January 16, 2006 First date was hot! Now we planned for a second date but, bowling alley was closed so we went back to his place and well we had some foreplay! =) Third time we hung out was at my place...made out some more...now it's reached the point where he expects it to always be my place or his place for some lovin....still haven't had sex. I've asked him out to eat and he's never hungry. I haven't initiated asking him out again...should I? Or does he just want to hook up? I tried to ask him out yesterday but, he didn't get back to me till 11pm telling me he didn't have his phone on him. Help!
Weye Posted January 17, 2006 Posted January 17, 2006 Go ahead and ask him out. You don't have anything to lose do you? Of course he wants 'some lovin', he's a guy. If you want to do something different, suggest it to him.
Author PlentyLV007 Posted January 17, 2006 Author Posted January 17, 2006 What can I say....I tried....I sent him a cute text , winking face...he called me like 2 hours later....sounding so un-interested, tired and well talking about hot girls on TV. When I was talking to him he stood quite and said, I'm looking at this hot chick....I said wow...your easily distracted...he said no, your just not keeping my attention.... Then realized that sounded mean....still just brushed me off like, you know it's better if I go to sleep, I'm like yeah...bye! I don't get guys! He was texting me all weekend and they acted like that!?
bluechocolate Posted January 17, 2006 Posted January 17, 2006 When I was talking to him he stood quite and said, I'm looking at this hot chick....I said wow...your easily distracted...he said no, your just not keeping my attention.... He said he was looking at a hot chick?! Wow, after just a few dates he doesn't feel the need to impress you, or more likely he doesn't know how. Cross him off your dating list - I don't think you'll get much joy from a man who can be disrespectful like that so soon.
Author PlentyLV007 Posted January 17, 2006 Author Posted January 17, 2006 Thinking....if he didn't want to talk to me, his attention span wasn't there...then why call at all!? Why couldn't he just text me back good night...!? Why would someone treat you that way when you've done nothing but, be cool with them....this attitude out of nowhere!?
Weye Posted January 18, 2006 Posted January 18, 2006 I'm looking at this hot chick....I said wow...your easily distracted...he said no, your just not keeping my attention.... No reason for him to act like this. He sounds like he's whining because he's not getting exactly what he wants. There are pleant of guys in the world who would never act so childish, maybe the best thing for you to do is find one
Author PlentyLV007 Posted January 18, 2006 Author Posted January 18, 2006 Funny you say that....last night I didn't text him nor call. In my mind it's set that he's just not interested the way I'm. Around 11pm he text me "hey babe". Then 3 min after he calls me. When I pick up it's like he hung up. I was half asleep so didn't bother to call back. Games huh? I don't get it.
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