32M broke a 2-year dry spell with 3 back-to-back 10/10 first dates. One ghosted, two are still in play. Why does my ego still hurt?

[MsJayne]

10 hours ago, Mylifeisajoke said:

Attraction that fragile isn’t worth chasing

Exactly, and she obviously reached that conclusion before you did . There's a great deal of sense involved in the old-fashioned way of the man doing the heavy lifting of the 'pursuing' in the first instance, it's a biological thing. You were not so "legitimately busy" that you couldn't give her a "hey", no one with a brain is buying that. No one in the world, not even the US president, doesn't have two minutes in a day where they can send a text to someone they want to connect with. 

Edited September 25 by MsJayne

[Mylifeisajoke]

5 hours ago, MsJayne said:

Exactly, and she obviously reached that conclusion before you did . There's a great deal of sense involved in the old-fashioned way of the man doing the heavy lifting of the 'pursuing' in the first instance, it's a biological thing. You were not so "legitimately busy" that you couldn't give her a "hey", no one with a brain is buying that. No one in the world, not even the US president, doesn't have two minutes in a day where they can send a text to someone they want to connect with. 

Should I give her another day or two to apologize for wasting my time

[Lotsgoingon]

You have a blast of a time on a date and then wait three days to call?

I would counsel ANY woman friend of mine to block you and ignore you. 

Here's what you're missing: the delay is how players operate, as in guys who just want to have sex. So she most likely had a great time, but when you hesitated, she said, "he's not serious" and she blocked you. She's likely had other dates where she really liked then he disappeared and hot and cold on her. She didn't want to repeat that scenario. 

Dude, that is EXTREMELY wise action on her part. You are deluded if you think she did something wrong! Why did you delay? That's the question! And she's not fickle at all. She's clear! 

[Mylifeisajoke]

4 minutes ago, Lotsgoingon said:

You have a blast of a time on a date and then wait three days to call?

I would counsel ANY woman friend of mine to block you and ignore you. 

Here's what you're missing: the delay is how players operate, as in guys who just want to have sex. So she most likely had a great time, but when you hesitated, she said, "he's not serious" and she blocked you. She's likely had other dates where she really liked then he disappeared and hot and cold on her. She didn't want to repeat that scenario. 

Dude, that is EXTREMELY wise action on her part. You are deluded if you think she did something wrong! Why did you delay? That's the question! And she's not fickle at all. She's clear! 

I get where you’re coming from that some women interpret a 3-day gap as disinterest. Fair enough. But ghosting after 6 hours of that level of connection and chemistry? That’s not wise, that’s insecure. A secure woman would jpossibly even text first and keep it moving. That tells me more about her than about me. I’d rather date women who communicate than women who punish

[Sony12]

45 minutes ago, Mylifeisajoke said:

I get where you’re coming from that some women interpret a 3-day gap as disinterest. Fair enough. But ghosting after 6 hours of that level of connection and chemistry? That’s not wise, that’s insecure. A secure woman would jpossibly even text first and keep it moving. That tells me more about her than about me. I’d rather date women who communicate than women who punish

You seem to think having a multi hour long conversation at a bar and a make out session afterward is something out of the ordinary. It isn't. Basically all it means is they may think your hot.  

Edited September 25 by Sony12

[MsJayne]

15 hours ago, Mylifeisajoke said:

Should I give her another day or two to apologize for wasting my time

[introverted1]

20 hours ago, Mylifeisajoke said:

Should I give her another day or two to apologize for wasting my time

We really need the laugh emoji to make a comeback.

[Sony12]

What you clearly need to do is tell the girl to drop everything and immediately drive over to your place to do your bidding.