La_BomBa Posted January 16, 2006 Posted January 16, 2006 I have a question, on my school there is this beatiful girl and i really like to meet her but i'm a bit afraid. I don't dare to talk to her when she is with a lot of friends, i don't want too look stupid to her friends. I know she probably likes me too because of the type of eyecontact i have with here. It is always with a smile and she looks at me for several seconds . But still i don't dare to go talk with her. Now i made a bet with friends if mine that i will talk with her before wednesday 18 Januari so that's coming quick and i think i really like this girl does anyone has a tip for me how to approach this girl. THX in Advance
Yamaha Posted January 16, 2006 Posted January 16, 2006 You just said your not going to approach so just sit there and dream and do not make a move. I would suggest getting used to your hand if you can't grow some balls and talk to a girl.
La_BomBa Posted January 16, 2006 Posted January 16, 2006 Oh no the PLAYER has arrived and given his comment, i asked if someone got a tip on HOW TO APPROACH. I never had problem with girls and still don't have them this is just 1 particular case because this one i don't wanna blow up. I will ask it again to normal people that can reply in a normal way. Can someone please give me a tip on how to approach this girl that is alway with a lot of friends of here around here. THX in ADVANCE
witabix Posted January 16, 2006 Posted January 16, 2006 Approaching a beautiful girl. Well this is how it works for me. I put one foot in front of the other, repeat, until you are standing in front of her. Then I open my mouth, and using the air in my lungs, I vibrate my vocal chords. I usually try making noises that sound like... "Hi, my name is Alexeyivitch Smolensk Tractor Factory Abu Hamlala Murphy, yea, Irish/Russian/Arabic, I know odd combination.." Then I just make it up after that. But seriously, just walk over and talk to her. It really is that simple! 1
La_BomBa Posted January 16, 2006 Posted January 16, 2006 I guess that is the best option i know and i really want to i think i'm gonna give it a try tomorrow and hope everything will work out for me. THX anyway
witabix Posted January 16, 2006 Posted January 16, 2006 I guess that is the best option i know and i really want to i think i'm gonna give it a try tomorrow and hope everything will work out for me. THX anyway Good luck, be calm and confident, and remember..... The only way to eat an elephant is one mouthful at a time.
dprelz Posted January 16, 2006 Posted January 16, 2006 do you have any classes with her? Talk about that at first. If not, just walk up to her and be like hey, how are you? Then go from there
Brittanyjean06 Posted January 16, 2006 Posted January 16, 2006 witapix, i like your picture who is it jw 1
witabix Posted January 17, 2006 Posted January 17, 2006 witapix, i like your picture who is it jw That Brittanyjean06 is the one, the only, the inimitable, the irreplaceable, the legend known as............................................. ............................... ............................ ........................ .................... .............. John Lee Hooker (Lights go up, guitar riff, bows and exits stage right)
Brittanyjean06 Posted January 17, 2006 Posted January 17, 2006 hes got some good stuffff ilove the blues
witabix Posted January 17, 2006 Posted January 17, 2006 hes got some good stuffff ilove the blues Brittany!! Sooo totally off topic dudess! However I have the answer!!!
Milo Posted January 17, 2006 Posted January 17, 2006 How to Approach a Beautiful Girl 1. Make direct eye contact 2. Wave your hands back and forth in a fluid motion. 3. Open your jacket up and raise your arms to make yourself look bigger. 4. Place the drink you are buying her on the table or bar and back slowly away. 5. In the future, put pots and pans on the outside of your pack or talk loudly while walking near beautiful girls so you do no startle them. 6. Do not try to escape beautiful girls by climbing a tree. 1
witabix Posted January 17, 2006 Posted January 17, 2006 How to Approach a Beautiful Girl 1. Make direct eye contact 2. Wave your hands back and forth in a fluid motion. 3. Open your jacket up and raise your arms to make yourself look bigger. 4. Place the drink you are buying her on the table or bar and back slowly away. 5. In the future, put pots and pans on the outside of your pack or talk loudly while walking near beautiful girls so you do no startle them. 6. Do not try to escape beautiful girls by climbing a tree. :lmao: :lmao:
witabix Posted January 17, 2006 Posted January 17, 2006 How to Approach a Beautiful Girl 1. Make direct eye contact 2. Wave your hands back and forth in a fluid motion. 3. Open your jacket up and raise your arms to make yourself look bigger. 4. Place the drink you are buying her on the table or bar and back slowly away. 5. In the future, put pots and pans on the outside of your pack or talk loudly while walking near beautiful girls so you do no startle them. 6. Do not try to escape beautiful girls by climbing a tree. :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: 7. Wear a REALLY big hat 8. Walk on stilts, with a sign over your head. 9. Learn to speak 'Woman', its their language you know. 10 Don't speak 'Man', they don't understand it 11 If however you are Trilingual, or better yet Cunnilingual you have it made 14 Learn to count 12 No really learn to count 27 Don't just say numbers at random. Dammit! 1,427 Stop it, you are being silly now! 14 Now you are repeating the numbers! 3.1428571 Thats Pi you know, hey, yea, get them a pie too.
luvtoto Posted January 17, 2006 Posted January 17, 2006 I have a question, on my school there is this beatiful girl and i really like to meet her but i'm a bit afraid. I don't dare to talk to her when she is with a lot of friends, i don't want too look stupid to her friends. I know she probably likes me too because of the type of eyecontact i have with here. It is always with a smile and she looks at me for several seconds . But still i don't dare to go talk with her. Now i made a bet with friends if mine that i will talk with her before wednesday 18 Januari so that's coming quick and i think i really like this girl does anyone has a tip for me how to approach this girl. THX in Advance Just to approach her out of the blue and then strain to make conversation might be difficult. Approaching her is inevitable...but, make sure you've done some research on her interests so ya know what questions to ask to spark the conversation.
Brittanyjean06 Posted January 17, 2006 Posted January 17, 2006 yeah lol don't listen to those other fooligens lol JUSTplaying just dont make it obvious that you are nervous, thats if you are of course. and act casual, I meen be prepared to say something stupid you won't be able to help it haha just playing ! do the above
Gold Pile Posted January 18, 2006 Posted January 18, 2006 Have your buddies pelt her group with snowballs. You then rush in to protect her. Keep your back to your friends because they will target your face (painfully). quickly guide her to safety....just the two of you. On a more serious note. She's just a person, plenty more will be met in your life. Keep in mind that failing to score with her is NOT the end of the world. Pretend she's unattractive, it should be easier to talk to her then.
dgiirl Posted January 18, 2006 Posted January 18, 2006 so today's the 18th... did you talk to her??? hmmm when does school get out? lol
CaliGuy Posted January 19, 2006 Posted January 19, 2006 Some quick advice. Learning to approach women is no different than learning to ride a bike. You have to get on the bike to get anything started. Keeping that analogy in context, it takes some time to get good at it. Understand this. It doesn't matter what you do or say, but roughly 20% of the women you approach will not be interested in you no matter what you do. The good news is 20% will. It's the 60% in the middle that you're going to have to sway to one side of the fence or another and what you do or say will have a big effect when you approach them. Salesmen are a good analogy when it comes to this as well. They know each day they are going to get rejected or accepted and work the hardest on improving their techniques to help sway that 60% group in their favor. Are you with me now? Ok, that said, if you do not practice talking to girls you will never get good at it. You have no way to improve your technique and get more comfortable around them. I mean, if I wanted to play golf and never hit the practice range would I expect to shoot below 90? Heck no, I'd be shooting around 120. Learning to be comfortable around women is many things. Learning to accept rejection and not take it personally (she doesn't really know you yet!), focusing on your confidence and self-esteem and basically getting out there and practicing. Yes, you're going to fail. Many times in the beginning but as you practice and learn what works for you, you'll eventually get more comfortable approaching women and soon enough you'll be hearing yes more than no. You can't score great on a test if you don't study. You won't get many dates if you don't strengthen your weakest areas. The old adage "You're only as strong as your weakest link" applies here. Get out there, start talking to them, be confident in who you are. Don't let rejection get to you and above all, practice! I know I am going to get chastised by some women here but the same applies to them as well. I find it perfectly acceptable for a woman to approach a man if she is interested. Nothing ventured, nothing gained or lost. But if you don't try, you may never find that dream girl or guy. Good luck.
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