Anonymous Posted September 17 Posted September 17 I dated twice with this girl last week, and we were tentatively scheduled to for a date this weekend. However, she wants to have a phone call instead of a date, so is this a bad sign?
ExpatInItaly Posted September 17 Posted September 17 1 hour ago, Anonymous said: However, she wants to have a phone call instead of a date, so is this a bad sign? Unless she gave you a specific and legitimate reason why she couldn't go on the date (but wanted to chat with you anyway to stay connected until she could reschedule the date) it's not a great sign, no. How did the dates go last week?
flitzanu Posted September 17 Posted September 17 that's hard to say without more context. maybe she doesn't want to actually go out in public, maybe she is sick and can't leave the house, maybe she has to dog sit for her neighbor, who knows...you can still have a "date" on the phone. that isn't a sign by itself.
Sanch62 Posted September 17 Posted September 17 You'll learn from her during your phone call whether she's up against a conflict but still just wants to talk to stay connected, or whether she wants to use the phone call to tell you that she no longer wants to remain connected. It's a 50/50 shot. My fingers are crossed for you, and I hope you'll let us know how it goes and whether we can help you.
longdue Posted October 6 Posted October 6 The one rule I have that has served me well is to step back when the other person isn’t putting in an effort. If she is changing the date to a phone call you deserve a better explanation and some regret from her which it doesn’t look like you got. Just cancel it by saying you are happy to meet again in person when she had time and let her call and reschedule. She probably won’t. She seems like a waste of time and will probably just string you along.
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