LXMii Posted September 15 Posted September 15 We’ve been together for 25 years. We’ve had our ups and downs and nearly separated years ago. I was admittedly not the best husband. I worked a lot and struggled with alcohol. I realized what I was doing to us and turned myself around. When we were going through a tough time, she had a guy friend I caught her lying to me about texting. When I asked if she was talking to him she said no, even though I had phone logs that proved otherwise. We got past that years ago and we were in a better place , or at least I thought so. Last week we were taking about this friend of hers and his current marriage issues, and I asked if they talked that day. ( they still keep in touch and have been friends for years). I saw them texting that morning so I already knew they had talked, but when I asked she said no. A day or so later I asked her why she lied and she said she forgot that they spoke. She apologized and said it was an honest mistake but my gut says otherwise. I have no real friends to talk to and I’m honestly lost right now. I feel crushed and hurt.
Sony12 Posted September 15 Posted September 15 Do you suspect they could be seeing each other or do you just not want her to talk to other men?
Author LXMii Posted September 15 Author Posted September 15 (edited) 11 minutes ago, Sony12 said: Do you suspect they could be seeing each other or do you just not want her to talk to other men? I want her to be honest. I don’t have hangups about her having guy friends. I have hangups about lying to me about it. She knows I don’t care, but when she lies it makes me think there’s more to it. Maybe there isn’t but that’s hard to trust. Edited September 15 by LXMii
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