My friend and my wife

[SultanOV]

I do not know what to do! Lately, I've been noticing very often that my friend has started paying attention to my wife! Of course, I tried to talk to my wife, but she said that it was just my imagination and that I shouldn't pay attention, because the 21st century is outside the window! I'm not ready to leave my wife either, we have a daughter and a full-fledged family. But it's pointless to talk to a friend, because I know he'll do whatever he sees fit anyway. Tell me what to do. [ ] 

Edited September 19 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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[Gebidozo]

What exactly did your friend do?

If your friend is behaving inappropriately with your wife, and even refuses to stop because he does “whatever he sees fit”, he’s not your friend. Just stop having contact with him.

As for your wife, either you trust her words that nothing inappropriate happened, or divorce her if you don’t believe her.

Edited September 13 by Gebidozo

[Jack Frost]

2 hours ago, SultanOV said:

I do not know what to do! Lately, I've been noticing very often that my friend has started paying attention to my wife! Of course, I tried to talk to my wife, but she said that it was just my imagination and that I shouldn't pay attention, because the 21st century is outside the window! I'm not ready to leave my wife either, we have a daughter and a full-fledged family. But it's pointless to talk to a friend, because I know he'll do whatever he sees fit anyway. Tell me what to do. Your answers are very important to me, and if possible, write to me via Telegram.: @family_0_5

Does ur wife dress explicitly whenever ur friend comes around or do u catch him looking at her butt everytime she passes by these can be indicating signs of maybe there's more going on 

[MsJayne]

Depends what sort of attention your friend gives your wife. If he’s just being friendly there’s no problem, but if he’s flirting with her it’s a different story. Please define “attention”. 

[S2B]

What, exactly is happening between them that makes it uncomfortable for you?

the guy is rarely wrong. See what is happening that bothers you.

any friendship that infringes on your marriage and the safety of that - should be ended.

and if she won’t end it she isn’t prioritizing your marriage.