Why wont he give me hope of any future together after 2 1/2 years?

[drkhairbeauty]

My bf and I have been together for 2.5 years. He is 10 years younger than I am. He is 27. I have two kids living with me part time and he has none. We don't live together. I am so confused and do not know if I should continue on with this relationship. We both love eachother very much. Or at least, he tells me that he does. He's alot of talk and little action. Anyways, lately he's been talking about buying property in IDAHO (we are in California). he calls it an investment. When he talks about things in the future it's always "He's" gonna do and not "We're" gonna do. I asked him if we could go do the property thing together...he kind of paused a little and said "no".( He doesn't want to move to Idaho. He wants to remain in Cali and carry on with his business and just have the property for an investment.) He lives above a shop in a tiny one room studio (with no kitchen) so you'd think he'd want to invest in something closer to home. Anyways, he never makes me feel like he's happy just the way things are and never wants to change them...meaning making a life eventually with me...(doesn't have to include marriage) He likes milking the cow, but doesn't like feeding it.