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[Jack Frost]

8 hours ago, ExpatInItaly said:

Well, yes. She is your wife. Unless she has given you a legitimate reason not to trust her, it would be strange to be worried about her going on a business trip. 

I do not recommend spying on her. Talk to her and express your concerns about your lack of quality time together. Hear her. She might have the same concerns. It sounds like there is a communication gap here and your mind is doing all sorts of spinning, imagining she is cheating. Is she that type of person? Or is she someone who you've known to be moral, honest and loyal to you? 

Unless you're leaving out important information, I don't think you have a reason to be so suspicious of her at this point. 

Ur absolutely right i will definitely communicate better with her ...I don't think she's the type but she is very beautiful and works with alot of men in her field..

[ExpatInItaly]

1 hour ago, Jack Frost said:

Ur absolutely right i will definitely communicate better with her ...I don't think she's the type but she is very beautiful and works with alot of men in her field..

So? 

At the risk of sounding up myself, I have always been considered an attractive woman. I have always attracted a lot of attention from men as well. This has zero influence on my own moral compass. It has never meant that I would cheat on my partner.  I don't see why you keep mentioning your wife's looks as if that were a factor in deciding to be disloyal to you. 

Do you thiink she has poor values? 

 

[Gebidozo]

1 hour ago, Jack Frost said:

.I don't think she's the type but she is very beautiful and works with alot of men in her field..

Her being beautiful and working with a lot of men in her field has absolutely nothing to do with the likelihood of her cheating on you.

Don’t let your insecurities destroy your trust.

[Jack Frost]

12 hours ago, ExpatInItaly said:

So? 

At the risk of sounding up myself, I have always been considered an attractive woman. I have always attracted a lot of attention from men as well. This has zero influence on my own moral compass. It has never meant that I would cheat on my partner.  I don't see why you keep mentioning your wife's looks as if that were a factor in deciding to be disloyal to you. 

Do you thiink she has poor values? 

 

Not necessarily poor values we've had our ups n downs we've been together since high school ,it's just with everyone using social media u can easily make friends in this day n age 

[ExpatInItaly]

3 hours ago, Jack Frost said:

Not necessarily poor values we've had our ups n downs we've been together since high school ,it's just with everyone using social media u can easily make friends in this day n age 

Agaim, this doesn't matter if she is a trustworthy person. 

I get men sliding into my DMs on social media. Do you know what I do? I ignore. If they persist, I firmly shut it down. Unless you have a reason to believe your wife has questionable morals, you are letting insecurity drive you and unfairly assuming bad things about her character. 

It sounds to me like you don't trust her. Has she cheated before? How's the intimacy in your marriage? Doe she seem disinterested in you? 

[Jack Frost]

11 hours ago, ExpatInItaly said:

Agaim, this doesn't matter if she is a trustworthy person. 

I get men sliding into my DMs on social media. Do you know what I do? I ignore. If they persist, I firmly shut it down. Unless you have a reason to believe your wife has questionable morals, you are letting insecurity drive you and unfairly assuming bad things about her character. 

It sounds to me like you don't trust her. Has she cheated before? How's the intimacy in your marriage? Doe she seem disinterested in you? 

I hope she hasn't cheated on me, our sex life is average maybe 1-2 times a month 

[ExpatInItaly]

9 minutes ago, Jack Frost said:

I hope she hasn't cheated on me, our sex life is average maybe 1-2 times a month 

So your sex life together isn't great. 

Is that what's causing you concern? 

[Jack Frost]

On 9/14/2025 at 11:18 AM, ExpatInItaly said:

So your sex life together isn't great. 

Is that what's causing you concern? 

Yeah definitely gota me thinking  

[Bryanp]

Wait. Did you say you thought two times a month is average for married couples?